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I may have come accross a little strong but I had to say something. I could have sugar coated it a little but that's not my style. Funny how so many people are here discussing this like rational human beings except for the original author. Hmmm...

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OOOO things, I guess I did miss that part! Charming.

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I agree, Ladywife. I don't think he wants newbies to experience the same problems. Nothing wrong with that. It was a bitter post to a bad experience. Could have been worded better. Sounded more like a scare tactic than advice. Mrs.

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My reference to making us feeling terrible was his other post to leaving us pitiful people to our sad pursuit of happiness. He said he saw the light.

You may take his statement different than me.

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I agree with both of you somewhat. Unfortunately, the man seems very bitter. This resulted in generalizations that were somewhat insulting. Therefore a lot of very important messages got missed. This man's example says a lot about what not to do and although I wish it was worded better the message is non the less a valuable one.

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After re-reading over and over the post from the person who started this thread, this is what I got out of it....... This was a man who wanted the lifestyle connections more than his wife.

He was wishing for female bisexual activity when his wife wasn't interested.

He is not happy with this body structure and feels he wasn't attractive enough(possibly based on too many 'no thank you" responses?).

Their marriage may have not been secure.

He is angry that he wasn't getting enough from the lifestyle so he wanted to make those who do feel terrible. Seems to happen quite often in the Forums lately. Sounds to me like there was a major lack of communication between husband and wfe before entering into this. His post may have been quite disturbing, but it does make one statement....... Communication and patience are the keys.

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Thanks Curious, that was very gracious of you.

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Curious, I like most of your posts. At the least they are thought provoking. But why are you so determined to have the last word? Even when someone is actually agreeing with you?

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Certainly nothing wrong with THAT! ROFL

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There's a difference in generalizations and absolutes.

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