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TOPIC: Is there such a thing as too nice (Signal sending)

Created by: JonMeg2112 Original Starting post for this thread:
As newbies to the couples scene (we have done MFM some since 2003) we are looking to attend a party sometime soon. We tend to be nice to everyone we meet, within reason of course. If you're a complete douche bag, asshole, pushy or disrespectful then you will get the appropriate response from us. We are entering into the LS to make friends as well as......well.....fuck? ;-) That being said what are some of your thoughts on mingling at parties and the line between having a good time and enjoying the company of a couple and taking it to another level? I mean just because we might not want to be sexual with you doesn't mean we can't still have a good time. Just wondering if that kind of attitude can send the wrong signals and if it's best to only mingle with people you are genuinely attracted to both physically and personality-wise? Not sure if all that makes sense but there ya have it.......

Created by: JonMeg2112
Original Starting post for this thread:

As newbies to the couples scene (we have done MFM some since 2003) we are looking to attend a party sometime soon.  

We tend to be nice to everyone we meet, within reason of course.  If you're a complete douche bag, asshole, pushy or disrespectful then you will get the appropriate response from us.  We are entering into the LS to make friends as well as......well.....fuck?  ;-)

That being said what are some of your thoughts on mingling at parties and the line between having a good time and enjoying the company of a couple and taking it to another level?  I mean just because we might not want to be sexual with you doesn't mean we can't still have a good time.  Just wondering if that kind of attitude can send the wrong signals and if it's best to only mingle with people you are genuinely attracted to both physically and personality-wise?  

Not sure if all that makes sense but there ya have it.......

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User Details are only visible to members.	laughing, Great post, I didn't see that coming. I love a good laugh.
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1047 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Alas she found another job. But she'll be more careful when speaking. ;)
Oklahoma City OK			Username hidden (214 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	krby, that was a combination of a moron, an asshole, an insensitive prick..and a few other things.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23645 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Did she bring you back a cup?
Middletown DE			Username hidden (466 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I can see how he misunderstood, I had a very similar instance in my own office. I asked my assistant if she wanted some coffee, she said yes, so I shoved her in a box and air mailed her to Venezuela.
Oklahoma City OK			Username hidden (214 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We agree, that was uncalled for. Bet flirts constantly, so far we have had no bad experiences. Dancing, even suggestively, is not an open invitation. Basic respect and courtesy is still required.
Middletown DE			Username hidden (466 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Even if the reply was meant to be that you would join them in bed, I doubt it would be to imply right there on the dance floor. That's beyond rude.
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1047 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A**hole, there should never be a misunderstanding of that magnitude.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am realizing how much easier it is to meet couples as a solo male. The wife and I either want to fuck or we don't. Having drinks, dinner and/or dancing is fine, but the bottom line is that they're not looking for someone to chat the evening away and then go home without a romp in the sack. Blunt, but that's the way it is.
San Quentin CA			Username hidden (8604 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You can be polite and social without being flirtatious. There may be some people who have a harder time reading the signals than others, but with experience you should be able to express your disinterest politely without trampling on anyone's ego.
Kingsport TN			Username hidden (150 post)

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