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TOPIC: How to know if someone swings
Created by: givemesomesex2
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It seems like couples that we know are always bringing swinging up to us. We would love to know if it is something that they are interested in but don't want to really blow our cover! We recently heard from people calling into a radio program about swingers, and this sounds very weird, that if you put a pineapple by your mail box, a white wreath on your door, or have yellow porch lights that indicates you are into the swing lifestyle. (We don't have any of those things!)

Does anyone know of a "secret question" that can be asked that is a safe way to find out if someone is into the lifestyle?

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Some people have ALL the luck! LOL

Jim

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Sometimes it's just a surprise! We had friends over for a vanilla dinner and after a few drinks she walks over to me, straddles me on the chair, and jams her tongue down my throat. (no panties in a short skirt, I think they had a plan)

They made it wayyyy to easy! LOL

Grantham NH
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I'm getting a pineapple for our door tomorrow! lol

Seriously, I know how I would answer if anyone asked, but how does one go about asking? I always wear my tits on the half-shell and hubby is very laid back, but I want to learn to approach.

Orlando FL
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Or that you like Apple computers :-)

Phil

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The International sign for a swinger is an apple with a bite taken out. In the old days you could order a lapel pin with the bitten apple which told those who knew that you too were a swinger.

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I ID swingers by how the female is dressed. Tits on a tray is a great way. The guy is usually VERY relaxed.

I've ID'ed 2 couples with that sort of vibe. I just said....You are swingers. Correct? yep. We talked about the local club or lack of one. Just like gaydar my swingdar works just fine.

Mischief

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I have a yellow porch light, but it's because I thought it would attract less bugs.

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Great topic. I've wondered about the same thing, but had an experience not too long ago that kind of made us think the secret handshake thing isn't needed. We were at a concert recently and were generally scanning around at other couples (we do this all the time, asking each other "what about them?"). Anyway, I asked mrs kilo about a couple over my shoulder a few rows back. We both looked over and they met our glance and burst into toothy grins. So did we. It was instantaneous and almost electric. Almost no doubt in our minds and they probably got the same vibe from us. Then the lights went down and we didn't get the opportunity to try to get closer to them. Ships passing in the night as it were. LOL

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Interesting question. We've been searching for the "secret handshake" for swingers for a few years and have yet to figure this one out. We also wish there was a universal symbol or sign we could use.

Phil

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Well, we don't dismiss the topic when it is brought ub but it never really goes to far. And we really don't want to make our friendship weird so we are nervous to take the topic to far or just come out and ask them.

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