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Meta, just have fun. Do not allow yourself to fall prey to the idea that since you are a swinger...you are a failure somehow if you are not fucking every dick attached to a man. And trust me, people will use manipulation in order to get you naked. I have been told I am hypersensitive, I am a fake swinger...because I do not and will not fuck just anyone. And that is okay, because what others think of me does not matter. You have to adopt my rule of "fuck it" lol. Once you have fuck it in you...you are good to go. Go like you go to any party or club...to have fun. If you play you play and thats awesome. However, if you have a great time and do not play...that is awesome too. I would rather dance, drink and be silly, having a great time...than go, have a mediocre time and get some strange. But it is just what you are looking for I suppose.

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Everyone's a beginner with no Certs at one point, right? If you're shunned for that it's their loss. Hold on for the experience you want. Enjoy! And welcome to the site and the LS!

Pulaski TN
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Good to know, thanks KD!

Campbell CA
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Thanks for the responses! We were leaning toward the "hold out" side ourselves, but there seems to be a catch 22 on here, most people brush you off if you arent certified, but if everyone brushes you off, its hard to get certified!

here's hoping our first party will change all that :)

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Our rule of thumb has always been, "If I were single, would I consider dating this person?" If the answer is "no," move on. If we wouldn't date them, we sure won't fuck them.

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Hello all, been lurking in the forums, decided to make a post on something I have not seen yet.

We are new to the lifestyle, have had NO experience in this before. We both know what we want, the issue we are running into is how picky should we be for our first encounter? Being newbies we got hit with non stop mails from "experienced" people during our time on the "new members near you" banner, but most of them seem to just want to have a quick "meet us at the hotel and we'll fuck", and we are not sure we are looking for that from the site just yet. That kind of thing we feel would be more fun if it happened at a party, rather than planning it out.

Is it better to hold out for what we REALLY want for our first time, or just take whats available so we can get some experience under our belt?

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