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Meta -- Welcome to the wonderful world of SLS. You will meet some good people, have some great sex, and perhaps even make some lifelong friends.

I'm going to build on what KindDragon said: hold out for "very close" to what you want. Its doubtful you'll find the "perfect" first experience but I encourage you to take the time to use email, instant messaging, and/or talking on the phone to really screen potential playmates. You'll be nervous your first experience and taking the time to build an attraction and a level of trust will be well worth it.

Right now you are hearing from all kinds of people, many who think if you are "somewhat do-able" then they'll fuck ya. I respect myself way too much for that experience. If I don't see desire in his eyes, why should I share my body with him?

From reading your profile, its clear that you truly appreciate each other -- now its time to find some partners who appreciate y'all too. They are out there!

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any man that wants to call a woman with a body like yours grandma....he is either blind or stupid.


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I wish I had one, so I must be under 200; yet over 50 for the Dood who wants to call me Grandma.

Life is good.......

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I assumed the same. What's your point?

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I was assuming he meant IQ.

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"I do have standards though, I normally choose not to meet wit the over 200 crowd for example. Anything under that is probably going to work for me."

Must be easy to write that profile: "I'll pretty much fuck anything under 200." Quite simple, really.

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im sorry y'all, but i aint fucking anybody just cause they are nice. i have done pity fucks because i didnt want to be the asshole....and i looked myself in the mirror and was like fuck shelly, you need a re-direct.

i appreciate personality. i appreciate being nice. that means i like you and means i will hang out with you and have fun. that does NOT mean i will be fucking you.


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If you're going to be overly fastidious towards everyone you meet, you're going to waste everyone's time and possibly pass up the best sex you've ever had and weigh down the intensity of the website."

how is being selective a waste of everyone's time? So. If i met you at a house party and said no thank you, I'm wasting your time?


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I'm going to deviate from convention and say don't be too picky. I basically know I'm going to be willing to fuck if I agree to meet the person provided she honestly represents herself on her profile. I know it all sounds great to say you deserve the best, don't settle for less than you want, etc, etc. but the reality is that although some of us might be nice-looking, a lot of us aren't. Look-at the end of the day, I just want to meet cool people and/or fuck, preferrably a combo of the latter. If I'm going to send away every woman who has 40 pounds to lose, has a dry personality, whatever, I come up short, not anyone else. I do have standards though, I normally choose not to meet wit the over 200 crowd for example. Anything under that is probably going to work for me.

If you're going to be overly fastidious towards everyone you meet, you're going to waste everyone's time and possibly pass up the best sex you've ever had and weigh down the intensity of the website. If she's somewhat do-able and interested, I'm more than likely going to go for it.


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once you "take what's available," that lowers your standards. Stay picky, but also open to a few surprises along the way.

Have fun G.

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