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I consider myself highly selective and play a lot more than 2-3 times a year. I believe the more selective one is, the more likely they are to attract the type of person they are interested in.

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Come on ready, you know me, I'm not here to woo anyone, I'm just keeping it real!

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Ahoy--that's not too far from the truth and it works really well for me. I do have an appearance criteria and an energy criteria but I'm willing to overlook a lot because I'm here to have fun period. You can be highly selective and play 3 or 4 times a year, constantly holding out for near perfection or you can opt my way, which for me nets far more fun overall.

lost--it's not a waste of time if one is at a party and not fucking anything that approaches one who's nice but I think it crowds that territory when for the 3rd Friday or Saturday night in a row one nixes a possibility on a 1 on 1 date because s/he has a dated hairdo, is somewhat overweight, a little frumpy, dry personality, whatever.

I mean I guess this comes down to personal preference: Highly selective fucking or free-for-all fucking. I'm probably overall closer to group no. 2.

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We are new. We have both said we will not "take one for the team" but how do you tell someone " no thank you"? We have been notified by some but have not met anyone face to face. We put accurate pics of both of us on but find not everyone puts up the man. Help!

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"Spanky, stop it already! You have such a way with words, my panties are soaked. :/ "

its pee ;)

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Nicely stated Hollym!

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If I don't see desire in his eyes, why should I share my body with him?"

good post!! I would be horrified if I found out that someone fucked me just because I was breathing and female. I understand that some are like that and hey, that is their right. It is not my way of doing things however.


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Meta -- Welcome to the wonderful world of SLS. You will meet some good people, have some great sex, and perhaps even make some lifelong friends.

I'm going to build on what KindDragon said: hold out for "very close" to what you want. Its doubtful you'll find the "perfect" first experience but I encourage you to take the time to use email, instant messaging, and/or talking on the phone to really screen potential playmates. You'll be nervous your first experience and taking the time to build an attraction and a level of trust will be well worth it.

Right now you are hearing from all kinds of people, many who think if you are "somewhat do-able" then they'll fuck ya. I respect myself way too much for that experience. If I don't see desire in his eyes, why should I share my body with him?

From reading your profile, its clear that you truly appreciate each other -- now its time to find some partners who appreciate y'all too. They are out there!

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any man that wants to call a woman with a body like yours grandma....he is either blind or stupid.


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I wish I had one, so I must be under 200; yet over 50 for the Dood who wants to call me Grandma.

Life is good.......

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