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jandcin-not bad, cincy! I'm here to have fun, I'm assuming my date is too. I'm sure some regard me as substandard; after all, I too get rejected at times, no biggie. But obviously rejection either by me or my partner impedes one of the central goals of the website for many, so my vote remains: Not too picky!

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Spanky shorthand as provided by Mrs. Cincy:

My standards are inversely proportional to the little hand on the clock. The later it gets the better looking all the substandard women get.

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Chasn--I'm not saying the women I play with are generally substandard. Many of them are beautiful. The topic of the post is "picky". The question is how picky should one be and everyone acts as if my answering the question is so awful. Naturally the idea of being picky brings up examples of characteristics that aren't popular with everyone (age, obesity, etc, etc). I'm saying that when I meet up with someone and she is not conventionally beautiful (substandard-at least by conventional standards-if you will) I often go for it if she wants to because being too picky makes for an early and dull evening and weighs down the intensity of my experiences here.

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Chasn--I'm not saying the women I play with are generally substandard. Many of them are beautiful. The topic of the post is "picky". The question is how picky should one be and everyone acts as if my answering the question is so awful. Naturally the idea of being picky brings up examples of characteristics that aren't popular with everyone (age, obesity, etc, etc). I'm saying that when I meet up with someone and she is not conventionally beautiful (substandard-at least by conventional standards-if you will) I often go for it if she wants to because being too picky makes for an early and dull evening and weighs down the intensity of my experiences here.

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Amen Gwen... I thought Spanky was attractive... and then he opened his mouth :-/

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Spanky... In my opinion... you better hope your play mates either don't read the forums or have very low self esteem!

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Nic--Excellent, you manage to attract many prospective playmates that qualify for your highly selective criteria. That's tough for a lot of people, I'm happy for you!

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Absolutely correct Shelly.

"If she has a cute ass, I'm out of there. :) "

Now see, I am exactly the opposite.

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I consider myself highly selective and play a lot more than 2-3 times a year. I believe the more selective one is, the more likely they are to attract the type of person they are interested in"

i think you are very correct. if i know you fuck anything with a heartbeat...how do I believe you when you tell me that I am pretty or sexy or anything. I may be wrong...but that is what pops up in my mind. I'm like wait....................you just told 30 other chicks that. wtf lol?


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"I consider myself highly selective"

I am too. Only the most substandard chicks will do. If she has a cute ass, I'm out of there. :)

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