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How pithy.

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One man's substandard is another man's treasure.

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Welcome to SLS and the swinging lifestyle!

One of the primary principles of the LS is "Have Fun!". If it's not fun, then why would you do it? If you don't feel that a hotel quickie would be fun, but lunch together might be, then I'd respond with that. Take your time to get to know people, be open to discovering new things, trust your instincts, and Have Fun. :-)

May all of your experiences in the LS be fun!

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I say keep looking and hold out for meeting the ones that really fit what you are seeking, have fun and dont worry about getting a cert right away or getting experience right away take your time. I am picky and def not here for quantity over quality.

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Nic's shorthand was far, far better than mine. Mine was, in fact, quite substandard.

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I'll say it again. The first step is to stop digging.

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So quantity over quality?

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jandcin-not bad, cincy! I'm here to have fun, I'm assuming my date is too. I'm sure some regard me as substandard; after all, I too get rejected at times, no biggie. But obviously rejection either by me or my partner impedes one of the central goals of the website for many, so my vote remains: Not too picky!

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Spanky shorthand as provided by Mrs. Cincy:

My standards are inversely proportional to the little hand on the clock. The later it gets the better looking all the substandard women get.

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Chasn--I'm not saying the women I play with are generally substandard. Many of them are beautiful. The topic of the post is "picky". The question is how picky should one be and everyone acts as if my answering the question is so awful. Naturally the idea of being picky brings up examples of characteristics that aren't popular with everyone (age, obesity, etc, etc). I'm saying that when I meet up with someone and she is not conventionally beautiful (substandard-at least by conventional standards-if you will) I often go for it if she wants to because being too picky makes for an early and dull evening and weighs down the intensity of my experiences here.

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