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I imagine there are a slew of critters in the animal kingdom who think and behave like Spanky. Turn on National Geographic channel some evening and watch how indiscriminate the male baboons are when it come to copulating. Heck, many of them will even attempt to fuck other male baboons. One can only imagine it's done in a hedonistic, no standards manner designed to enjoy his baboon freedom from oppressors like Fundies and chimpanzees.

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Spanky, I haven't paid much attention to your posts until recently, but from those, anyone can easily glean several things: You make demeaning and insulting comments about women. You project a vibe of desperation to get laid, and view it as a "competition." You have whined about the plight of single males, and feel the need to "advocate" for them (us?). Add to those facts a few weird comments you have made (e.g., your support of incest, bestiality, and drug dealers), and it shouldn't come as a surprise that people are going to have a little fun at your expense. But I agree with Deb that you seem to be good at shrugging it off, so that's cool.

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Rdy2—thank you for opting to take my plaintive statements on their face value (the way they were intended to be taken) and in their proper context instead of contorting, deliberately misconstruing, taking out of context, etc like some here because it satisfies some sort of narcissistic tendency to tell themselves what a scumbag I am and how much better they are than me. It’s so stupid really, I’m a little crude admittedly but aside from that, I think the substance of my sentiments are widely shared.

Seduction—as far as I’m concerned, there is probably a fundamental difference between how we view sex. I would say mine is more deeply rooted in hedonism (since I don’t need to be especially attracted to someone to seal the deal) but to the vanilla outsider, you’re a sexual deviant for your own participation in this lifestyle. Furthermore, I don’t think your opinion of me has any more merit than those of fundamentalist Christians and such who would attack both of us. You have absolutely no idea how I interact with my dates and I don’t know what on earth gives you the idea that I say anything to get laid. If anything, my statements here would indicate that I might actually be perceived as putting my foot in my mouth and, in the process, ruining an impending play date in favor of honesty and not censoring myself. But by all means you are free to continue standing on your self-righteous pedestal and judge me on some superficial criteria such as my usage of the word “substandard” or for my view that I think some physical flaws (I can hear the thought police Gestapo coming out now!) are worth overlooking in my search for dating and playing.

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OMG, it finally hit me. For days after reading his posts, I was bothered what he reminded me of, but couldn't put a finger on.

You know how boys are in high school and college? they'll tell you anything that they think you want to hear in order to get into your pants... that is exactly what he reminds me of. Anything to get laid.


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I am by no means trying to change him or his mind. We'll never meet. What we seek from swinging is not what he can provide. I just pity the women that wind up with him. Just think about their self esteem, do they even have it to wind up with his kind?


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If one isn't particularly picky about whom they bed, just how much respect do they really have for themselves?


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How pithy.

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One man's substandard is another man's treasure.

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Welcome to SLS and the swinging lifestyle!

One of the primary principles of the LS is "Have Fun!". If it's not fun, then why would you do it? If you don't feel that a hotel quickie would be fun, but lunch together might be, then I'd respond with that. Take your time to get to know people, be open to discovering new things, trust your instincts, and Have Fun. :-)

May all of your experiences in the LS be fun!


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I say keep looking and hold out for meeting the ones that really fit what you are seeking, have fun and dont worry about getting a cert right away or getting experience right away take your time. I am picky and def not here for quantity over quality.

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