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TOPIC: How_many_emails,_texts,_etc_before_you_actually_meet
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Newbie question here...

The few couples we have met up with so far, we haven't had much/if any instant chemistry with. We have some meetings coming later this month, so we are hopeful for better results with those.

Question...how much pre-meeting emails, texts, phone calls, etc does everyone do before the actual meeting?

At first, we tried the "email a lot first" way. Then we tried the "email just a little" way. Neither worked, but we chalk it up to our inexperience and figuring out what's gonna work for us.

Right now, we are talking with a couple who will be visiting Maui soon and we have found that having short, fun, sexy texting sessions with all of us involved is working for both parties. We can do quick pix exchanges, maybe talk a little dirty and basically get *excited* about seeing each other! (Instead of dreading the meeting and just hoping the people aren't gonna be too weird or boring or not look like their pictures or....)

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How would you do it if you just met someone for the first time in a bar? Would you go to your cars and text? Just meet and get it on!

White Hse Sta NJ
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2-3 messages and then exchanging numbers. Easier to just talk on the phone!

Toms River NJ
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depends, local couple or single male we can meet up with at the club? usually not a whole lot of emailing, texting before meeting. Meeting outside the club? Generally a bit more specially with single males.

Louisville KY
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We've found that we have a little more email/text back and forth before meeting, but that's all on my work schedule. We do make couples aware of this early on though.

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@Nic - Oh, we shall! Now...the mfm. That went much easier. :)

Wailuku HI
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What you are doing now has worked well for me. One or two emails, see pics then progress to text/phone call and meet. I am not looking for pen pals but need to see if there is at least a little chemistry thru some conversation.

Good luck with your upcoming meet, please feel free to share the results!

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Newbie question here...

The few couples we have met up with so far, we haven't had much/if any instant chemistry with. We have some meetings coming later this month, so we are hopeful for better results with those.

Question...how much pre-meeting emails, texts, phone calls, etc does everyone do before the actual meeting?

At first, we tried the "email a lot first" way. Then we tried the "email just a little" way. Neither worked, but we chalk it up to our inexperience and figuring out what's gonna work for us.

Right now, we are talking with a couple who will be visiting Maui soon and we have found that having short, fun, sexy texting sessions with all of us involved is working for both parties. We can do quick pix exchanges, maybe talk a little dirty and basically get *excited* about seeing each other! (Instead of dreading the meeting and just hoping the people aren't gonna be too weird or boring or not look like their pictures or....)

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