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User Details are only visible to members.	So what do you say when you are at a hotel? Lol just busting.. It is so much easier to ask at a club especially if it is on premise.
Augusta NJ			Username hidden (16075 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We're still new at this and I think you/we really have to just get comfortable with being direct. It doesn't seem as hard to do when we're in a club and that kind of environment. (I'm assuming you meant a LS club or event) We did have a really hard time switching gears to that when we met a couple at a restaurant, a family restaurant with little kids at the next table! We liked them, but just couldnt make the transition from conversation to let's go to a hotel.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	for me, its always just been there. the "it", whatever it is....has always been there. If someone has to "grow" on me...i know its just not meant to be. If i have to talk myself into it, same thing. I have learned to listen to that sense. When the chemistry is there, it is simply there. It just "is". You cant force it you cant fake it. Sorry to seem vague, but you will just know. And it never really has to be said, you just kind of know.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23645 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Love your idea, Seduction!
Hixson TN			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Just go with the chemistry of it. You know the deal, listen to your vibe.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23645 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hmm, the most recent time that we were in such a situation, I simply leaned over to the guy and whispered in his ear: "I want to know what you feel like inside of me!" Ten minutes later we were upstairs ;).
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12260 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Who uses the word "conversing"? I suggest you say, "We're interested in you two."
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My wife and I were discussing this recently. The most awkward part of meeting a couple for drinks or dinner (which we always do on the first meet), is after dinner when getting ready to leave. If things went well over dinner, and we seemed to click, we usually ask them "When would you like to get together again?". If they seem really eager and rattle off a bunch of dates, that is a great sign that they are interested in moving forward, and you can exchange phone numbers and hash out the details later by phone or text. Usually in that ensuing communications it will evolve into where and when, and then you're all on the same page, and you'll be having sex most likely on that next date. If they come up with a lot of reasons they can't meet up sometime soon, that probably means they weren't as interested in you as you thought, so it's best to tell them you had a great time, enjoyed meeting them, and let it go at that. If you didn't like them for whatever reason, well that's a tougher situation to deal with.
Kingsport TN			Username hidden (150 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	First, welcome to the forums. If you take some time and read some of the posts, you may find the answers to your question, or at least some shared experiences. Second, you have to change your mindset just a bit because it is not like dating. Some people will call their meets dates, but we don't. I think if there is some slight touching going on along with the banter, things progress. Usually SOMEONE will take the lead, but if nothing is happening and everyone seems stalled a bit, then just simply ask, "would you be interested in taking this further?" you may get a no, you may get a yes, you may get a "not right now." Do not take the "not right now" as a rejection. It could mean they're a bit nervous, or not ready to have sex yet, or want to stay and flirt with some other people first before committing to taking things into a private area. Good luck and have fun! Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6029 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We're great at conversing with people at clubs, but I have a hard time turning the conversation to play without it seeming too abrupt. How do we go from friendly banter to "hey, let's fuck" without using those exact words? We've been married 10+ years, so it's been a long time since either of us have been on the dating scene.
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