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Damn, that was so easy.

"Redy2play, that sounds like fun, we are interested."

And then wait for a reply.

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We have a saying we like.

"If you don't ask the answer is always no"

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oh yes, good question. Girl i dunno....politics has never been my strong suit. For me, if they hang only together I assume they are a couples only...if they mingle separately and together I assume its cool.

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I dunno....our protocol is we always ask the other partner no matter what. We do this because we were at a house party and I went to play with him...thank GOD......I asked if he had condoms and he said no. I said well, go get one. He went out and his wife freaked OUT, like totally got pissed off and embarrased herself and him by going NO NO NO NO NO, you canNOT play with her. OMG we all felt sorry for him because it was in a crowded room and she was not quiet. He was like a little boy, oye. Since then we always ask.

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i usually kiss him/her, smile and say some smooth shit like "soo....do you want to go somewhere more private?" Then I totally go and ask their other half can so and so come out and play hahahahaha

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with me.....see, I love partying. For me, the hard part about play is dragging myself away from the party to go play haha. I am totally like a damn 6 year old...I'm afraid I'm missing some shit. I just love dancing and being silly and partying so much, I am always like okay, it can wait. In an hour. Then oh okay, hold on....give me another hour. Then its 4am hahahaha and too late.

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So what do you say when you are at a hotel? Lol just busting..

It is so much easier to ask at a club especially if it is on premise.

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for me, its always just been there. the "it", whatever it is....has always been there. If someone has to "grow" on me...i know its just not meant to be. If i have to talk myself into it, same thing. I have learned to listen to that sense. When the chemistry is there, it is simply there. It just "is". You cant force it you cant fake it. Sorry to seem vague, but you will just know. And it never really has to be said, you just kind of know.

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Love your idea, Seduction!

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Just go with the chemistry of it. You know the deal, listen to your vibe.

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