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cosmopair - Ask anything, that is why we are all here.

Nic. the official welcomer will be along soon. Until then Welcome to the Forums.

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Can I ask you a few questions?

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Bump. So how did you get started?

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Funlovers07: Heh, I think we're gonna attend the May 1st meeting.

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bdh, for us, it's the 13th Floor. they have "meetings" every Friday and Saturday night.

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Where is this program and when is the next meeting...

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for us, it was when we were still dating. I asked her if she had any unfulfilled fantasies. She answered that she had always wanted to be with another woman. As I had been in the lifestyle before, I let her know that there was a "program" for women like her and that there was a "meeting" that weekend. We went to a local swingers club and she ended up in bed with 3 other women.......

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I cant remember when I wasnt a swinger.I didnt know I was for a long time . I slowly begin to realiz I was . that was 30 years ago just my thought bubububye

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it happened slowly over time. first us discussing our ideas about remaining monogamous. then going into clubs and watching men make out with her and seeing how turned on it got us. then going to adult theatres and watching OTHERS get turned on by us. then we went to our first swingers club in new orleans during the MLK weekend this past january and found ourselves part of a group of six person orgy on a couch. we were hooked then. in the past three months, we've attended two swingers parties...played a lot at both of them..and we've had an FMF, a MFM, and a foursome that looks like they are going to be a regular couple for us. we're in for the long haul.

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My wife says I've been a swinger at heart as as long as shes known me. 4 years after we started dating she got tired of my voracious appetites and told me if I found another girl that was willing to blow me, I should take her up on the offer, saying "its one less thing I've gotta do". We were in college at the time and my ineptness at closing the deal with any woman (even her) was a running joke between us so I just wrote it off as a bluff on her part and kept it as a funny story to tell our friends. Eventually her libido increased and mine came down to a more reasonable level (1-2 a day for your early 20s is reasonable isn't it?) but the idea playing with other people persisted in my mind. We would talk about it from time to time, me trying to understand the female mind(still working on that one) and why women(to me anyway) linked sex and love so tightly together. They had always been distinct concepts and actions that, to me, though they shared a lot in common, were not one in the same. The difference between fucking, and making love: one I can do with many, the other is only for her. The two may appear to be identical from a physical point of view, the difference in the mental aspect is what makes 'making love' special. Fucking is about having fun, and trying like hell to make sure others are having fun. (just reread and realized my brain train has derailed, back to the story).

A few years go by, I become more confident as a person, and start to notice that my natural flirtyness starts to garner some legitimate interest (which scared the shit outta me at the time). The Mrs noticed it as well and began hinting that a threeway wasn't out of the question. The logistics of making it happen still eluded me, and I was in the military by that time, so the fear of the hell that would rain down on my career should we be caught participating in extra-marital fun nixed any pursuit of it. 6 years later, the hinting at a threeway had morphed into a offer from the wife, something that she wanted to try as well. I'm at a week long hockey tourney, and I hit a (vanilla) bar with my teammates for some drinking and flirting. A young girl catches my eye (and a few others) so I go over and say hello. I flirt, she flirts right back. I continue and make sure she knows I'm married, both verbally, and visually (I make sure she sees the ring) and wrack my brain trying to figure out how a married guy invites a girl to a threeway without sounding like a cheating husband. I had never been so close to making it happen and I hadn't thought about how to actually close the deal. Before I can react, she checkmates my game of flirting one upsmanship: She leans in close, firmly grabs a handful of my crotch, and says "it's too bad you're married, I love skinny white boys". I want to scream at her "MY WIFE WANTS TO HAVE A THREEWAY" but some of my teammates are watching, and though the Mrs is interested in a threesome, she would not be happy for all of our friends to know it. I go home that night and tell the mrs. She laughs at me, and then proceeds to look up stuff on the web. That was about 2 months ago. We have since found that craigslist is only good if you like disappointment, liars, freaks, and flakes. We went to our first On-premise Club and liked it so much we went back the next night. Had a blast, met some great people and I think we've found our niche. The amazing thing to me is how something as simple as the social part of all of this, the planning of our outings, and discussion of desires and fantasies has re-awakened/elevated our at home sex to ridiculous levels.

For those of you trying to do the math on that story, I was 15 when we got together. And to add an odd twist to everything, until we started playing, she was my only. Life is a funny thing.

TL:DR.

She brought it up (I guess), and it took 15 years to get there.

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