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I (husband) brought it up. Scariest moment of my life. Wife was visibly upset. Thought I wanted to cheat and that everything was changing. Kind of pointed out the obvious - if cheting were the goal then I wouldn't tell her about it! LOTS of talking ensued. In the interim communication increased 1000 fold about EVERYTHING we became closer and more open. The sex got hotter and inhibitions flew out the window.

We started off with a Craig's list ad. Actually were contacted by a unicorn! We went to a bar and met her and went back to her place. The wife was not ready. On the period and not cool with the chick. She was a creepy weirdo. But we did it. We showed up. We had balls.

A few weeks later we went to a free tour of a sex club near our home. Sat in the parking lot for awhile. I was scared to go in. The wife? Raring to go. In we went. She led the way. Back in the car she was totally into joining and thought it looked fun. We joined and stayed. Saw and heard many great sexy things - fucked like animals.

Then came the shoes. The clothes. The nails. The hair. She was experiencing a complete coming out. She loves to dress slutty and go out. Then came the stories and admissions. She likes girls and was much wilder than I had known in her past. There are zero barriers in our bedroom and our sex life has exploded.

Then one night at the club a local group was there for an outing. A group called Sex Positive Portland (Oregon). They specialize in open, respectful, non threatening, consensual communication and adult activities. We were approached and met with several members. One gentleman took an interest in the wife after meeting us. We all ended up on the dance floor. She ended up kissing us and groping us both. VERY hot. Eventually getting the hand job of a lifetime from him resulting in her first g-spot orgasm. She finished it off by blowing him on the dance floor.

That was followed by a soft 4 way, and a same room encounter with another couple. Just sex in the same room. No intra couple touching. Which was admittedly pretty hot though tame. We're headed toward our first full swap and many other things we are ready to try. Slow and steady we are taking things as they come and enjoying the ride. We regularly go to two clubs and two different meet and greets. We also joined Sex Positive Portland and have attended a few of their events including a class called "Mapping The Vulva" where I learned the skills to give my wife the same earth shattering orgasms she had the first night we ventured from voyeur to participant. We have met some very cool people along the way. And some creepy weirdos. But it's OUR adventure and always a lot of fun.

It has categorically changed our lives for the better. It sounds counter intuitive but opening our relationship to sexual activity with others has brought us closer together. Weird. Though middle aged parents and suburbanites Sunday through Friday, on Saturday nights the heels come out, the slutty clothes go on and we go out for OUR night. Don't wait up. We'll be late.........

So much fun. This Saturday? A club outing with Sex Positive Portland. The theme? Naughty School Girl. We already have the outfit and shoes ready to go. We enjoy finding delicious new outfits for her to wear together. Never liked shopping before, but that kind of shopping I can do!

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Welcome to the fora NewInDFW

As KF said, take it slow and enjoy the ride. You are certain to get a lot of response to your fantasy so take your time and vet the guys (as that is what you will get the most response from initially) and choose one who you feel comfortable with and will respect your boundaries. Best choice will be someone with certs and a paid member who is willing to meet for drinks with no play at first.

Good luck and have fun! And let us pervs know how it goes! lol

~scamp (he)

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I first started swinging when i was twenty. My almost girlfriend and i where sitting down having a beer and she looked me deep into my eyes and said" Dan I am bi and i want you to take me to a swing party"

Being the worldly man that i was at that age...I responded with "huh what is bi and you like swing dancing?"

We went to Barry and Shells the local swingers club the next night and had a ball.

We had a lot of fun sex in the next couple of years but we never got close enough as a couple to move in together.

I met my wife a few years later. She was a sexual as the above woman, i was just out of college and starting my own business and she was busy working as well, swinging never came up. I noticed that she really enjoy the attention from other men and loved to dress so that the men would look at her.

About three months after we moved in together i mentioned swinging and she got a big smile and said...you dont mind if i have sex with other men?

Its been a very happy marriage, with three kids and lots of very fun sex. To this day she still spends time with and old boyfriend from college, they meet once a year at the industry's annual conference.

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@ Newin

Welcome to the wild side......enjoy, go slow, continue talking always, you're in this together and that's what makes is special.

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We're still at the very (very) beginning stages, but it went like this:

A couple months back I came across the results of a scientific survey that described sexual fantasies by gender. I asked her which ones my she liked, and she admitted that a threesome or foursome was something she'd considered before. We discussed what that would be like, how I'd feel about her and another man (excited, to say the least!), and so on. Just talking about it sent our sex life through the roof! We've talked about it since then occasionally, and yesterday she admitted she's ready for some M/F oral play. You can't imagine (well, yes you can) how excited I was to hear it. So, we signed up for this profile and now our journey begins...

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Our story started about ten years ago. We would put kids on the school bus and then make love sometimes all day until kids came home or I went to work. It became routine we both knew it needed more spice. My wonderful wife would give me bjs all the time, not wanting anything in return. One day i got the courage to tell her that she deserved someone giving her pleasure while I was getting blown. She stopped and said "What did you say" I repeated it she said " I don't think so" but afew days later i said it again. She said "You would let someone else fuck me." " Oh yeah, you deserve to have more pleasure" I said. That started a conversation Who, where, when, how do we find someone. I knew of SLS website, so we started to look and found The Great Bedford Meet n Greet. We were nervous but got enough courage to sign up and go. We sat with a nice couple from Md.They gave us a great insite on the lifestyle. It was a bar take over, but about 10:00 pm things got started. Women eating women, men getting bjs. We got whiplash turning our heads. The night was almost over, it was last call. I turned for two seconds to talk to a couple, when I turned back my wife had her tongue down another's guy throat, her hands all over his crotch. I could see he was rock hard, and she was enjoying every moment making him that way. I felt jealous, but wanted to see more happen. Thats when she reached over to me gave me a deep kiss rubbed my crotch. I was instantly rock hard and throbbing. He introduced himself and said he had a room close by. We were on our way to his room!! We were only there about an hour. We had our first mfm. The drive home we talked about how exciting it was. We couldn't take it any more we pulled over and fucked (not make love)but fucked hard in the back of our van. We got home an fucked again and again and again. We were hooked.... What a great ride been!!!!!

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Hi Everybody-- I think that my "start" took a bit longer than most of the posts I've seen here. In college, my pal and I both dated the same girl for awhile and the three of us would often go out together, and when the evening got late, we'd park out in the boonies somewhere. One of us guys would take a walk while the other spent quality time with "Susan" and then we would switch. I kept thinking how fortunate she must be. There was a lot of fondling and handjobs, along with her giving us head usually, but never together. For some stupid reason it never occurred to us to all get together.

Fast forward over ten years, and my then girlfriend brought up her former college roommate up to our place at Tahoe for Valentine's Day. Stupid me didn't realize I was being set up until we all crawled in bed together, but OH MY GAWD what an amazing three day weekend that was! Later on I realized that, for me, MFM was a better fit (honestly, two women nearly killed me!) and to this day, there's nothing more exciting or erotic for me than to get together with a couple where the woman wants two guys.

Be that as it may, I'm really enjoying seeing all of the great stories on here, and for those of you who have assertive wives or girlfriends who have led you into the lifestyle, hell, I'm jealous! I keep running into the very vanilla women of the world. Not complaining exactly, but wow!

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jeepers: welcome to the forums!

Bridgewater NJ
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rebels: welcome to the forums! cool story.

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It started for us when we made our move across the country. We decided to make the drive and do all the unpacking and setting up ourselves. One of my (the male) best friends was between jobs so I ask him if he'd like to come up and help if I paid for his meals and such. We picked him up on our way and things seemed normal. He was only supposed to be with us for 5 days until our stuff got there but we ran into an issue with the movers/weather (moved in winter time) etc and that extended our stuff for another 4 days which he volunteered to stay for. We had all three been having our share of drinks at night and one night we started playing some truth or dare app on my phone...it started innocently enough at first, but then started involving things such as removing clothes etc. I ask the wife if she was ok with this as we went and she didn't protest at all so it progressed. By the end of the first night the task was to perform 69 with my friend...she said she was ok with it and so it happened! I was sitting beside the bed rock hard! We had some of our best sex after that and continued playing the game while he was there. It got up to intercourse and mfm all of which we all enjoyed! Haven't looked back!

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