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User Details are only visible to members.	We've been faithfully married for 30 years and we simply ran out of toys to buy, positions to try and venues to experiment in. The adventure of swinging was another arena to explore. It's been very fun!
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User Details are only visible to members.	Mrs. SB's version of how it got started. We were both already pretty active LS members when we met I was simply an adventurous SF who went to Memphis for a vacation of "blues, booze, bbq and bedsports." A mutual friend gave me the name of a guy that I should meet in Memphis who "knew everybody", not a profile name either - just a first name. WTF what was I supposed to do with that - most people don't have their real names and the friend had conveniently gone traveling abroad(didn't answer cell). I am a doer by nature and decided to wing it on my own, moved my profile a week ahead and opened pictures to 3 SM's that caught my eye.... and waited, as a rule I don't email SM's. Sure enough 2 of the 3 contacted me and made M/G dates along with a few couples that emailed and I communicated with and agreed to m/g at club and another public venue. I was very excited to be indulging in a long weekend of debaunchery and wicked fun away from home after a rather rough period. What about that 3rd SM? Oh yes, well a couple of days before I was to drive up, I went in to close my previously opened pictures and found that He had opened all of his pictures. I was curious as to why he had not emailed if he was interested, in my experience SM's always mailed even the ones you wish hadn't. In glancing through those certs -- I came across one that began with his initial - and I deduced that he was likely the one my friend had told me about - some profile content matched a snippet of a particular conversation I had with my friend and based on that recommendation and the 1 cert, I carefully considered and composed an email and sent it off. Shortly thereafter, he replied and we had what I assumed would only be a weekend m/g and date. Lots of people commonly say, see you soon or 'see you next time", as I did. After all, I do live a couple of hours away and really had no expectations of future involvement. So I was sort of surprised that he actually contacted me right after I got home and we kept in touch and very soon had a second date -- actually sooner than I have had second vanilla dates occur. I must say I was very impressed by the gentleman. Mrs. SB
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User Details are only visible to members.	Mr. L and I have always been very open. A couple of years ago, having recently started dating, Katy Perry was singing a song while we were waiting for previews at a movie theater. He asked jokingly if I'd ever kissed a girl and liked it, as another of her songs famously mentioned, and I said that yes, in fact I had! Mr. was quite intrigued, and that led me to mention some other things that turn me on, and the rest is history. Through lots of talking we have figured out what we want, and through talking and experiences we know what we like, so we have a hell of a time doing those things when we can manage it :-)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Welcome to the forum Wildandwonderful....very appropriate screen name!
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User Details are only visible to members.	Many nights in bed we would share our thoughts on swinging.We really talked a lot about it for about 6 months then I said lets just do it. The reason we decided to do it was we both felt like we needed more. We have been married for 18 years and I really like women this seemed like the only way for me I didnt want to cheat.(BTW I'm the female.)You only live once. Yolo!!
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User Details are only visible to members.	Bump - Love this thread. :-)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you Nic! That we did! Everything just fell into place, it was prety awesome :)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Welcome to the forum, and to the "pool"! Sounds like you jumped right in the deep end! ;^D
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11415 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mr. and I decided to share our sexual bucket list. We both had a threesome with another woman on the list! So the lines of communication were opened. I was told to check out this website by an LS acquaintance. This was last week. We went to our first Hotel party just a few days ago, and are still grinning from losing our virginity that night!
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User Details are only visible to members.	Sounds like you two thought it out and had a great start! Welcome!
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