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We had briefly talked/fantasized about it when we first got married, but neither took it any further after we moved and started our family. Fast forward 5 years, we had moved to a new community with new jobs again. I sent him a few sexts, asking what his favorite fantasy was. He said he wanted to watch another man fuck me and then join in for DP. He wanted to watch me orgasm over and over. Listening to him describe his fantasy turned me on so much! We watched porn together, showing showing each other what we were interested in. Nearly all of our interests involved another party being present! The more we talked about it, the more we decided we wanted to act.

A month later, here we are on SLS. We haven't met anyone yet, but have made a couple connections and hope to soon!

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We had talked for years about 'getting a girlfriend' for us to share. We looked into polyamory and even joined a website or two. Years passed us by with me telling him (the more shy one of us) 'go get us one baby, bring her home and we'll share!" but with no results. Then one of our neighbors got to hook up with a cute little pixie. He more or less stomped around the house for a few weeks saying things like "Why can't WE do that?" So, one day while he was at work, I did that! I put our profile together and polished it up all purty and presented him with it when he got home. He's been a happy camper ever since!

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I will give you a few weeks to get things good and warm ;)<br />

Louisville KY
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PG,

I started rubbing things together this past weekend...

Give me a few more weeks and I should have a raging blaze waiting for you.

BT

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Well see what you can do about making it warmer and I will come visit.

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It's 23. We don't have winter boots. We put newspaper in our shoes to keep warm, and to give us something to<span style="line-height:1.6em">read when we're bored.</span>

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Oh I'm sure we could come up with a few ways to raise body temps. But you do know its 0 here today? you're having a heat wave by comparision.

Louisville KY
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PG,

If your tour guide falls through, I'll happily step in. It's cold here. So, you'll either have to pack your thermals, or figure out another way to raise your body heat.

For me, it all began with a GF who became bored with watching porn. Thanks J, wherever you are.

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I think we posted it someplace else, but here it is in almost all detail:

~~<br /> I first brought it up to my wife several years ago and I was a PERVERT!!! "Why would you want me to..." "You just want to fool around with other women!!!" Jump forward 3 years. I was on her Facebook playing Texas Hold'em. When this guy, that she used to date, before me, popped in with a, "Hey Sexy." I had always thought that she didn't tell me everything that happened between them, so I said, "Hey, what's up?" LOL I spent the next hour chatting as her. ;-) What I found out was that, although they fooled around, they never had sex. But during the chat he became very flirtatious. So, I played along. He even wanted to meet. I said, "Ok" calling his Bluff and he backtracked, FAST! The next morning, I took my wife out to breakfast. During out conversation, I told her about my chat the night before. I also told her that I now believed her about them fooling around but not having sex. However, I went on to tell her that I got a really "Gay Vibe" from him. She assured me that I was wrong. I gave her a few examples, again, she disagreed. After further discussion, I finally said the two words that she can't resist, "Wanna bet?" "Yeah" Then silence. I finally broke the ice by asking, so how do we ever really find out. She thought for a moment, pulled out her cell phone and sent him a text, "Hey, enjoyed our chat last night, lets meet up today sometime and talk." He responded back quickly, when? where? A few more texts and they agreed to meet that evening at a local park. before, she left I asked her what she had in mind? She just said, "We are gonna see who wins the bet." She asked if I was alright with it. I said, sure. Later that evening when she got home, she gave me the details. They arrived at almost the same time, and walked to a picnic table under a shelter. They talked about old times and caught up. Then they took a walk on one of the nature trails. As the sun was going down they returned to the picnic table and shelter. They talked, but this time she sat close, rubbing his leg and shoulder as they talked. She then said that she stood up, walked around in front of him and laid a kiss on him. They made out for the next several minutes. Then she stepped back and removed her shirt, reached behind and let her bra fall to the ground. They continued to kiss, then she slowly removed her shorts... Long story short, I won the bet. He was gay. LOL However, hearing how she was touched, kissed, etc. really turned me on. We had the most intense sex that night. She liked the fact that she could be with another guy and I was supportive and did not get upset or mad. We researched "Open Marriage" then found SLS, and found out that we knew some people in the lifestyle. We asked a lot of questions, and took baby steps at first.

Since our start, we have made several good friends (Including 'Nic of the North'and really expanded our outlook on marriage and sexuality. What surprised us most was how much it improved our communication with each other. :-)

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Hopefully one day soon I will make it to NOLA, and hopfully someone will show me around their city.

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