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TOPIC: How did it start
Created by: stcwill88
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Who in your relationship brought up the idea of swinging? When it was brought up what was the reaction? How did they bring it up? How long did it take for you to act on it as a couple? A lot of questions I know but I am just interested on how everyone else got started
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@dacouplefreaky

Very cool fantasies, welcome to the forum, keep us posted as to your first experience, when it occurs. :-)

Marietta OH
 
 
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@SunnyFlower3

Great start, welcome. What a nice surprise. Would love to hear more about the first encounter. :-)

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Our guy played in BDSM and as a single male in the lifestyle for years. He reached a point that the sex was unfulfilling as he didn't share a connection with anyone. He removed himself from those pursuits and sought out a lady in normal channels. When he met Mrs OWC we fell for each other immediately and it was smokin hot between us from the get go. As we grew closer and opened up about who we were the Mrs was a tad shocked but titillated to hear about his BDSM and single male experiences in the LS. She said it was exciting but didn't think she could go there, was this a deal breaker for him? His response was no, I love you and want to be with you. I'll go there if you ever change your mind but want to be with you. We proceeded to do everything two people can do with each other that interested us. He did casually expose her to shows like Real Sex on HBO and soft porn with racy topics. Not to mention we love porn and all the plots we found exciting. After about 1 1/2 yrs she started asking about my former experiences and told me she'd like to be around people like she had seen on Real Sex but didn't want to do anything. We traveled a large distance from home and went to Menages in TN. She was so excited about the openness, seeing nudity in public and other people fucking that she had me fuck her quickly and where others saw us. Next it was to Trap in Atlanta for more of the same. We then became regulars at the Estate in Charlotte and were still just partying and playing with each other. My stance was we go where you want. I will never pressure or go first. I stuck to that and one night it was time and we played with another couple.It was a very good night! 6 months later she had her first bi experience and we have been having fun ever since. Now its equal and about what we want but I feel we never would have gotten here without being focused on her needs in the early days. I still pay attention to them by all means, just make sure my opinion gets considered too! :>)

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We had briefly talked/fantasized about it when we first got married, but neither took it any further after we moved and started our family. Fast forward 5 years, we had moved to a new community with new jobs again. I sent him a few sexts, asking what his favorite fantasy was. He said he wanted to watch another man fuck me and then join in for DP. He wanted to watch me orgasm over and over. Listening to him describe his fantasy turned me on so much! We watched porn together, showing showing each other what we were interested in. Nearly all of our interests involved another party being present! The more we talked about it, the more we decided we wanted to act.

A month later, here we are on SLS. We haven't met anyone yet, but have made a couple connections and hope to soon!

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We had talked for years about 'getting a girlfriend' for us to share. We looked into polyamory and even joined a website or two. Years passed us by with me telling him (the more shy one of us) 'go get us one baby, bring her home and we'll share!" but with no results. Then one of our neighbors got to hook up with a cute little pixie. He more or less stomped around the house for a few weeks saying things like "Why can't WE do that?" So, one day while he was at work, I did that! I put our profile together and polished it up all purty and presented him with it when he got home. He's been a happy camper ever since!

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I will give you a few weeks to get things good and warm ;)<br />

Louisville KY
 
 
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PG,

I started rubbing things together this past weekend...

Give me a few more weeks and I should have a raging blaze waiting for you.

BT

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Well see what you can do about making it warmer and I will come visit.

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It's 23. We don't have winter boots. We put newspaper in our shoes to keep warm, and to give us something to<span style="line-height:1.6em">read when we're bored.</span>

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Oh I'm sure we could come up with a few ways to raise body temps. But you do know its 0 here today? you're having a heat wave by comparision.

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