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TOPIC: How did it start
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Who in your relationship brought up the idea of swinging? When it was brought up what was the reaction? How did they bring it up? How long did it take for you to act on it as a couple? A lot of questions I know but I am just interested on how everyone else got started

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We had been dating for several months, had been doing some hot play, but had not had sex yet. We were in New York City on business and while driving to see a show on Broadway, we passed by a sign that said LaTrapeze. She asked what it was. I told her that it was a swing club. She asked what was a swing club. After I explained she said that it sounded like fun and perhaps we should go there after the show.

We talked about it and agreed that we would just so light play, soft swap, no penetration with others. When we got there we had to disrobe and put our clothes into a locker, and were given a towel to wrap around ourselves. We went into the group room and lay down off to the side, with my towel under us and her towel on top of us. It was like being in the middle of a porn movie. Whenever I would say something she would say, "Don't look too hard, they will notice us."

After about 15 minutes we were joined by another couple and while we where talking, I felt her jerk. He had started running his hand up and down her leg. I asked her if it was OK and she said, "Yes." Soon she was stroking his cock and he was fingering her. I was concentrating on kissing her and her tits. Then I looked up and he was on his knees with his hard cock in his hand, moving to put his cock in her pussy. She had this glassy look in her eyes and did not respond to my query was it OK. So, I asked him not to fuck her and things calmed down. Later she said that she just felt frozen.

Two weeks later, after lots of talking about it, we returned with the same intentions of soft swap, no penetration. This time we got with a very nice couple and were having a lot of oral with the other mates. After the gal came so many times she was exhausted, we joined my gal and her guy. He was giving her oral again. Soon, he got onto his knees, moved his hard cock up near her pussy, and asked if he could put it in her. She looked at me and raised her eyes to ask if it was OK to me. A thousand thoughts went through my mind, including that if he fucked her, it would be before I had a chance to fuck her. But, in a microsecond, I realized that I loved her and wanted her to enjoy him. So, I nodded my head, "Yes," she pulled his shoulders toward her, and he slipped his cock in her. The first time he came after about five strokes, but after a rest, they fucked for about 30 minutes before he came again.

Later that night at the hotel, we had sex for the first time. She was happy then, and we have had a wonderful relationship ever since. We both feel that swinging prevented any of the petty jealousies that many couples have, and we each enjoy watching the other be sexual pleasured by others.

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I, the male, started it but once my wife got into it she now is the one who keeps it going and I love that,

Socorro TX
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That is so cool. glad it all worked out. :-)

Marietta OH
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WV, we still are and business partners too. I guess we multi task.

Thornton CO
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@HavingFunTogether2113

sounds like you are really good friends. A great afternoon by the pool. :-)

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This started years ago, about 35. I good friend of mine was in a war of a divorce and depressed with the action of his soon to be Ex. He visit us often and swam in our pool, sometimes nude and we all drank together. We all got along very well with our close group of friends. Knowing him well I thought I would help him out. I brought up the idea to my wife having sex with him. It took a while for her to agree. On a afternoon visit to us, using our pool I told him she agreed to BJ him. I had to leave for business for a couple of hours. When I got back she told me she gave him a BJ on a lounge chair at the pool. We have been swinging with him and others up until now.

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@dacouplefreaky

Very cool fantasies, welcome to the forum, keep us posted as to your first experience, when it occurs. :-)

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@SunnyFlower3

Great start, welcome. What a nice surprise. Would love to hear more about the first encounter. :-)

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Our guy played in BDSM and as a single male in the lifestyle for years. He reached a point that the sex was unfulfilling as he didn't share a connection with anyone. He removed himself from those pursuits and sought out a lady in normal channels. When he met Mrs OWC we fell for each other immediately and it was smokin hot between us from the get go. As we grew closer and opened up about who we were the Mrs was a tad shocked but titillated to hear about his BDSM and single male experiences in the LS. She said it was exciting but didn't think she could go there, was this a deal breaker for him? His response was no, I love you and want to be with you. I'll go there if you ever change your mind but want to be with you. We proceeded to do everything two people can do with each other that interested us. He did casually expose her to shows like Real Sex on HBO and soft porn with racy topics. Not to mention we love porn and all the plots we found exciting. After about 1 1/2 yrs she started asking about my former experiences and told me she'd like to be around people like she had seen on Real Sex but didn't want to do anything. We traveled a large distance from home and went to Menages in TN. She was so excited about the openness, seeing nudity in public and other people fucking that she had me fuck her quickly and where others saw us. Next it was to Trap in Atlanta for more of the same. We then became regulars at the Estate in Charlotte and were still just partying and playing with each other. My stance was we go where you want. I will never pressure or go first. I stuck to that and one night it was time and we played with another couple.It was a very good night! 6 months later she had her first bi experience and we have been having fun ever since. Now its equal and about what we want but I feel we never would have gotten here without being focused on her needs in the early days. I still pay attention to them by all means, just make sure my opinion gets considered too! :>)

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We had briefly talked/fantasized about it when we first got married, but neither took it any further after we moved and started our family. Fast forward 5 years, we had moved to a new community with new jobs again. I sent him a few sexts, asking what his favorite fantasy was. He said he wanted to watch another man fuck me and then join in for DP. He wanted to watch me orgasm over and over. Listening to him describe his fantasy turned me on so much! We watched porn together, showing showing each other what we were interested in. Nearly all of our interests involved another party being present! The more we talked about it, the more we decided we wanted to act.

A month later, here we are on SLS. We haven't met anyone yet, but have made a couple connections and hope to soon!

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