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User Details are only visible to members.	HI... We started w/a threesome with a good male friend of ours! It was a huge turn on for me and she was fine w/it to.............smile. We have done threesome since then and we have played w/couples to. I enjoy the MMF's more. Kelli is very picky about being w/another man again and thats ok to. We are to old for any BS so we are pretty up front w/what we like. Nice topic! Lee & Kelli
Sparta WI			Username hidden (21 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I remember my husband joking about his bucket list and on it was watching his wife with another man and/or women would be a big turn on...so I told him I had been in the swinging lifestyle with my previous mate (we were newly married and I had never told him before). Well I did not have to twist his arm very far and we were off and running. We have been having lots of fun and it has been much better with my current hubby since it did not work out with the previous one but that was because we were trying to fix "us". I am just trying to get over being a bit shy around others and trying to be more forward to talk to people. Debbie
Rockledge FL			Username hidden (9 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have technically been a swinger since my first sexual relationship. My ex really wanted a 3some (what man doesn't?) and i was willing to provide that for him. So I had him pick the girl, and I invited her to bed with us. Surprisingly, she said yes. It was a very interesting experience that I wanted to repeat. And even though I'm not with the ex anymore that first girl and I are still very close. My bf came out of a 7 year relationship with a very vanilla woman. We met while he was (as another poster said) "sport fucking" his way through the panhandle. He had the same fantasy of a FMF which I told him I would be happy to provide. As our relationship grew, I was able to get him several FMF and even an MFFF. I cannot remember who brought up the idea of full swapping, but it doesn't really matter because both of us were completely interested and ready to go there. I do remember once it was out there we had found our first couple with in a week :)
Navarre FL			Username hidden (69 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	What a great thread! Some terrific stories here. Ours is that after 30 years together, raising our kids and going through life's ups and downs together, we're enjoying our empty nest together. She's an only child from a sheltered background. She's also the most wonderful partner on so many levels. Tugging at her naughty side has kept things interesting for us. It started with a bedroom fantasy about being watched. Accidentally stumbled onto a website for a swing club, which led to this site, which led to me showing it to her, which led far more than we ever imagined. Almost a year in the hobby, we're both having a blast and fascinated by what we're learning about each other in our 50s. And our passion for each other has taken a quantum leap that I don't think we thought was possible. As a few of you have pointed out, communication is mission critical. We're in this TOGETHER and I wouldn't have it any other way. Our son's future in-laws are close to our age, are country folks and have put "that sex foolishness" away. They sleep in separate rooms. We just shake our heads.
Charleston WV			Username hidden (204 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hubby brought it up first, and slowly i became interested, several years, and many awesome times ago,made lifetime friends, and have met some real fakes, most all of them cheating husbands, and a few cheating wives, knowing the difference between the true honest swingers, and the fakes are sometimes hard to filter.we have loved the lifesryle
Charlestown IN			Username hidden (186 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It was all her Idea.....sort of. Cindy is the perfect picture of a reserved "good girl". It's not an act, she really is as sweet and pure as she seems. We dated for 6 months and she wanted to save sex for after marriage because she wanted to "do it right" this time. I think it had something to do with feeling valued but I'm quite famous for being clueless so I'm just guessing about that. We waited, it was hard but we held out. After the wedding, one of our first neckkid wrestling matches ended in her crying. Of course I was a bit confused as to why, Im not that big and my aim was pretty good, anyway she says she was having a happy cry. She felt wonderful and clean and good and treasured. You can imagine my relief over that one. After a year or so of adjusting and learning that we really could trust each other with our very souls we happend to have a wonderfully charged session where we came at the same time. When breath returned enough for conversation I let a random thought slip out loud, that happens to me a lot, I said something about this being to wonderful to keep all to ourselves. She looked at me and I could tell she was thinking on something important before she spoke, unlike I do. She said it was funny I shoud say that because sometimes she enjoys a fantasy of someone in our room watching us. It sounded good to me so thats how the most unlikeliest good girl became a swinger. We are still evolving with each encounter and it gets better and better with all the quality folks we meet and share a special moment with. It helps a lot that I'v finally matured a bit as to this lifestyle, I'm not as eager to have something happen as I was in the begining. I'm learning to wait for those connections that Cindy needs to truely relax and let herself go. When she gives it up it really is a case of a woman giving and allowing herself to be taken by friends and the situation. It can be frustratingly slow for an old dog like me that thrills at the sight of Sweetie getting her grove on. It helps when I remember how rewarding waiting for 6 months was, thankfully music, dancing slow with bodies close, candles, laughter and Jack Daniels can shorten the wait considerably. H
Brunswick GA			Username hidden (638 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We started by talking and teasing each other...about adding another person or persons to our sex life. We'd both see a girl pass, and he'd wink and whisper, "you'd like to do her, wouldn't you?" and I'd blush (yes, people still blush). Then we'd carry it further in bed later. After a bit of that, we both talked about trying it for real. He left it up to me, smart man that he is, and i posted a profile on an adult friend finder site. we met a great couple, played soft swap, and had fun, and then they split (nothing to do w/ swinging, she wanted children, he didn't). After that came a FREAK OUT for me, as the lady in that couple FELL IN LOVE WITH ME...yikes!...so I had to learn my boundaries and also to say NO in a more solid manner. We don't consider that or other experiences negative, however. It was a great learning experience and we took a step back for me to regroup. Then, we went to a swing club in Vegas, which was TOTALLY HOT and one of the best experiences I've ever had. It felt "anonymous," plus I got my wild on. So, we were baaaacccckkkk and have never stepped back again. We always talk about things, we remain open to new people and experiences, and we are not jealous, pushy, judgemental or competitive. We have a blast, love to help other people have a blast, and will continue for as long as physically able. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6029 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	maybe_just_maybe --- Cool Start.
Marietta OH			Username hidden (1366 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Shortly after we became empty nesters we saw two shows about swinging on TV. We "pillow talked" and fantasized for a couple of years before joining here to learn more. That was January 2007 and we first played, with Kyle's best friend, in March 2007. It was even hotter than we expected and we were hooked. We're late-in-life bloomers but are having the time of our lives. ~ Jen
Moosic PA			Username hidden (1021 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Love this thread.
Marietta OH			Username hidden (1366 post)

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