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I'll take the blame for getting us involved. In a prior career, I traveled the eastern part of the US and all of Canada. I quickly learned that sitting alone in a hotel room watching TV didn't cut it for me. I began taking different Penthouse Forum books with me on all trips and noticed the 3sums and moresums sections turned me on the most.

For a reason I forget, I mentioned this to the wife. I began scanning stories from the forums books in our home office and e-mailing them to the wife at work. When she'd get home for the day she'd almost rape me. This lead to lots of hot pillow talk and lots of intense orgasms for both of us. In 2001 we had the opportunity to go to Florida on a family/work/vacation trip and ended up in Daytona Beach.

Since we're Harley riders, we found a bar with lots of Harleys parked in front and went in. In an hour or so we noticed a young single guy that was handsome and well known by the locals. She leaned over and whispered, "How about him?" It took some coercing on my part, to the point of looking him in the eyes and telling him point blank, "She wants to fuck you. Do you know where such 'n such hotel is?" That was the 1st 3 sum we had.

The next few years was spent talking, talking and more talking. We eventually joined a swinger's board, asked a lot of questions, then because SLS advertised on that site, we joined here as free members and then as lifer's. We've ran into some obstacles, but as somebody said on that other website, "When you hit a wall, don't back up, walk sideways until you find the next door." The rest is mostly history. We've made a lot of friends and had many good times with those we've met here and hope to keep meeting more.

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Before my lovely wife passed away last year. Her co-worker mentioned a few years ago, about some motels have hot tubs now. Her and her husband was celebrating their wedding anniversary that weekend. She mentioned it to me about relaxing from the kids some Saturday night, so we did.... We continued having a relaxing time together every now and then.

My wife wanted to shop at the outlet mall one evening, I mentioned, lets get a room also...... I made the arrangements, we went shopping. We returned to the Hampton Inn, the room had a broken window, which they failed to call us. The desk clerk called over to the Holiday Inn, we received a honeymoon suite, awesome room....... I was relaxing in the hot tub relaxing, she mention, why is there three of everything in this room??? Now, after having a few cocktails, I replied...... Maybe the room is designed for threesomes.....

As she hopped in the hot tub, she replied, this would be a great place to break the ice...... I looked at her dumb founded, she replied, we're going on twenty years of marriage, why not? I had the laptop with me, she found swingtowns first, then joined here. We had fun with a few of the ladies she met her, until tragedy....the everyday life of the bad word "cancer"....... Life is to short, thinking about it.... My life has changed now, I rejoined, keeping in contact with our few remaining friends and making new ones.... Never underestimate the powers of your wife...... Steve

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Love this thread.

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As a turn on we would share details about other lovers , it felt erotic sharing openly , and that led to some fantasy talk , did you ever think about a mfm just for fun sex . As we got a little bolder we visited a nude resort a few times and had our first 3som . ( nude resorts a great way to be comfortable with yourself and others befor taking the next step to swinging ) I felt that sharing sex was the biggest trust that we could share with each other and meeting other like couples a high and has kept our sex life hot .

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tenman1949...

Good to hear, good luck and enjoy the forums.

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I was on a web site a month or so ago and a poster said that he was going to attend a swingers party. He wanted to know what he should expect and whether his penis was large enough! Several people who had knowledge of the lifestyle, both male and female, answered assuring him that it was not necessary to be anything other than yourself. They explained some common rules and courtesies and gave this website as a place to ask questions "from the people who know." Everything that they said sounded interesting, so I thought about it for about twenty seconds, checked out SLS and filled out a profile.

I got tired of the restrictions of being an unpaid member within a week, so I paid.

I used SLS to find clubs in my area, and I have attended several times already. I wish that I had found this site earlier. In the last few weeks, I have already had several experiences that, until now, were fantasies. Its looking good, so far.

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that's pretty close to how we started as well :)

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i forgot how to walk,to be honest..not to mention everything we had went after

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And the timing could not have been better. Walking into a grocery. LOL I doubt if I could have remembered my own name at that time.

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you got that right

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