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@ Newin

Welcome to the wild side......enjoy, go slow, continue talking always, you're in this together and that's what makes is special.

Kernersville NC
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We're still at the very (very) beginning stages, but it went like this:

A couple months back I came across the results of a scientific survey that described sexual fantasies by gender. I asked her which ones my she liked, and she admitted that a threesome or foursome was something she'd considered before. We discussed what that would be like, how I'd feel about her and another man (excited, to say the least!), and so on. Just talking about it sent our sex life through the roof! We've talked about it since then occasionally, and yesterday she admitted she's ready for some M/F oral play. You can't imagine (well, yes you can) how excited I was to hear it. So, we signed up for this profile and now our journey begins...

Bedford TX
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Our story started about ten years ago. We would put kids on the school bus and then make love sometimes all day until kids came home or I went to work. It became routine we both knew it needed more spice. My wonderful wife would give me bjs all the time, not wanting anything in return. One day i got the courage to tell her that she deserved someone giving her pleasure while I was getting blown. She stopped and said "What did you say" I repeated it she said " I don't think so" but afew days later i said it again. She said "You would let someone else fuck me." " Oh yeah, you deserve to have more pleasure" I said. That started a conversation Who, where, when, how do we find someone. I knew of SLS website, so we started to look and found The Great Bedford Meet n Greet. We were nervous but got enough courage to sign up and go. We sat with a nice couple from Md.They gave us a great insite on the lifestyle. It was a bar take over, but about 10:00 pm things got started. Women eating women, men getting bjs. We got whiplash turning our heads. The night was almost over, it was last call. I turned for two seconds to talk to a couple, when I turned back my wife had her tongue down another's guy throat, her hands all over his crotch. I could see he was rock hard, and she was enjoying every moment making him that way. I felt jealous, but wanted to see more happen. Thats when she reached over to me gave me a deep kiss rubbed my crotch. I was instantly rock hard and throbbing. He introduced himself and said he had a room close by. We were on our way to his room!! We were only there about an hour. We had our first mfm. The drive home we talked about how exciting it was. We couldn't take it any more we pulled over and fucked (not make love)but fucked hard in the back of our van. We got home an fucked again and again and again. We were hooked.... What a great ride been!!!!!

Johnstown PA
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Hi Everybody-- I think that my "start" took a bit longer than most of the posts I've seen here. In college, my pal and I both dated the same girl for awhile and the three of us would often go out together, and when the evening got late, we'd park out in the boonies somewhere. One of us guys would take a walk while the other spent quality time with "Susan" and then we would switch. I kept thinking how fortunate she must be. There was a lot of fondling and handjobs, along with her giving us head usually, but never together. For some stupid reason it never occurred to us to all get together.

Fast forward over ten years, and my then girlfriend brought up her former college roommate up to our place at Tahoe for Valentine's Day. Stupid me didn't realize I was being set up until we all crawled in bed together, but OH MY GAWD what an amazing three day weekend that was! Later on I realized that, for me, MFM was a better fit (honestly, two women nearly killed me!) and to this day, there's nothing more exciting or erotic for me than to get together with a couple where the woman wants two guys.

Be that as it may, I'm really enjoying seeing all of the great stories on here, and for those of you who have assertive wives or girlfriends who have led you into the lifestyle, hell, I'm jealous! I keep running into the very vanilla women of the world. Not complaining exactly, but wow!

Auburn CA
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jeepers: welcome to the forums!

Manville NJ
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rebels: welcome to the forums! cool story.

Manville NJ
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It started for us when we made our move across the country. We decided to make the drive and do all the unpacking and setting up ourselves. One of my (the male) best friends was between jobs so I ask him if he'd like to come up and help if I paid for his meals and such. We picked him up on our way and things seemed normal. He was only supposed to be with us for 5 days until our stuff got there but we ran into an issue with the movers/weather (moved in winter time) etc and that extended our stuff for another 4 days which he volunteered to stay for. We had all three been having our share of drinks at night and one night we started playing some truth or dare app on my phone...it started innocently enough at first, but then started involving things such as removing clothes etc. I ask the wife if she was ok with this as we went and she didn't protest at all so it progressed. By the end of the first night the task was to perform 69 with my friend...she said she was ok with it and so it happened! I was sitting beside the bed rock hard! We had some of our best sex after that and continued playing the game while he was there. It got up to intercourse and mfm all of which we all enjoyed! Haven't looked back!

Alexandria VA
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Swinging is something hubs has always had an interest in. When the internet was new he would show me websites and events he had found but I was not willing. We made the leap in April with threesomes - here is a blog post I wrote about making the leap - Our partaking in threesomes came about because hubs wanted to fulfill a fantasy of mine - which was many hands.... and kissing and touching and just so much sensation that I just let go and enjoy the ride. He has always had an interest in swinging - in hindsight. So he worked on me.... I could not believe he would be ok watching me with another man.... for over a year. We finally talked seriously about it and I said I would do research - I am an over thinker from way back. I looked up articles - there's not a lot out there. I tried to find psychological thoughts on it - even less out there and then I went to read about the experiences of others.... which then also lead me to Tumblr. We talked and talked some more about it and then I talked to a friend who I knew played that way and I landed on ok - let's give it a try. It was not a decision made lightly - not after 25 years of marriage. There was absolutely a lump in my throat and an uneasiness in my tummy..... but GOD was I horny! My friend suggested AFF and I sent hubs to go find us a man. First couple of friends were.... well.... discouraging and not what I was thinking at all. Finally, after a couple weeks he started chatting with a semi local guy who was experienced, interested and they were having a good conversation. The men brought me into the loop.... I expressed my trepidation and new friend helped make me comfortable. In the end - I knew the guy from another life - we laughed but it was great for our comfort level. So our first threesome was three hours of so much fun!! From there I just wanted more....

Portsmouth NH
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My wife was the one who got us started, when we met over 4 years ago we discussed bringing in another for a 3some then decided we were not ready for it. A couple months ago my wife took our daughter to the park and met a man there who had his kids and since the kids were playing together they decided to talk, he said his wife didnt have many friends since they were fairly new to the area so he gave his wife's number. They started chatting and the lady told my wife she was bi and they were swingers and since my wife has always been bi she got excited about the idea of bringing her in for my fathers day gift, I was very hesitant especially after being in a prior marriage where my ex was extremely jealous if I only looked at another women so it took me a couple days of discussing with both women to finally make it happen but at the time I was completely against bringing in another man. My wife loved watching me with the women and joining in at times, after we talked a lot and I decided it was only fair to let her try out the man so a week later we tried a full swap separate room since I was not ready to watch. I had a ton of emotions that night since I could listen to her in the other room and I was close to ending the whole swinging thing but as the days passed my emotions changed and we tried it some more but this time completely solo. Since then we have been with a couple more couples for a soft swap same room and the other day a full swap same room and we both have come to love the lifestyle more and more each day. One thing that helped us was setting some rules in the beginning, we mostly play together but the option of solo is there and we also have the rule where we keep it fair, if one goes and plays then the other cannot until the other half gets to play too. Some people have not liked our rules so far but for now its our preference. I would say swinging has brought us closer together and we have learnt a lot already especially in new ways to please each other and before we started this our sex life was getting dull and almost non-existent, now we have sex every single night I can make it home from work even if its 3am she will wake up. -Jake

Shafter CA
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We had been dating for several months, had been doing some hot play, but had not had sex yet. We were in New York City on business and while driving to see a show on Broadway, we passed by a sign that said LaTrapeze. She asked what it was. I told her that it was a swing club. She asked what was a swing club. After I explained she said that it sounded like fun and perhaps we should go there after the show.

We talked about it and agreed that we would just so light play, soft swap, no penetration with others. When we got there we had to disrobe and put our clothes into a locker, and were given a towel to wrap around ourselves. We went into the group room and lay down off to the side, with my towel under us and her towel on top of us. It was like being in the middle of a porn movie. Whenever I would say something she would say, "Don't look too hard, they will notice us."

After about 15 minutes we were joined by another couple and while we where talking, I felt her jerk. He had started running his hand up and down her leg. I asked her if it was OK and she said, "Yes." Soon she was stroking his cock and he was fingering her. I was concentrating on kissing her and her tits. Then I looked up and he was on his knees with his hard cock in his hand, moving to put his cock in her pussy. She had this glassy look in her eyes and did not respond to my query was it OK. So, I asked him not to fuck her and things calmed down. Later she said that she just felt frozen.

Two weeks later, after lots of talking about it, we returned with the same intentions of soft swap, no penetration. This time we got with a very nice couple and were having a lot of oral with the other mates. After the gal came so many times she was exhausted, we joined my gal and her guy. He was giving her oral again. Soon, he got onto his knees, moved his hard cock up near her pussy, and asked if he could put it in her. She looked at me and raised her eyes to ask if it was OK to me. A thousand thoughts went through my mind, including that if he fucked her, it would be before I had a chance to fuck her. But, in a microsecond, I realized that I loved her and wanted her to enjoy him. So, I nodded my head, "Yes," she pulled his shoulders toward her, and he slipped his cock in her. The first time he came after about five strokes, but after a rest, they fucked for about 30 minutes before he came again.

Later that night at the hotel, we had sex for the first time. She was happy then, and we have had a wonderful relationship ever since. We both feel that swinging prevented any of the petty jealousies that many couples have, and we each enjoy watching the other be sexual pleasured by others.

Bowie MD
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