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Who in your relationship brought up the idea of swinging? When it was brought up what was the reaction? How did they bring it up? How long did it take for you to act on it as a couple? A lot of questions I know but I am just interested on how everyone else got started

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When we first started going out I told her that she needed to know that I was a nudist and that I knew that I’d always want to have sex with more than one woman. We spent the first three or four years we were together trying to fuck each other’s brains out - which is what I imagine most new young couples do.

We talked about swinging but didn’t really know how to get started. In those days there were only regional magazines where you’d publish an ad and if you were really daring, a photo. We thought that was too risky. We also joined a nudist park and went there regularly. Late one night at the park we were talking with a couple we’d met. He and I were talking something, maybe cars and the women had their own conversation going, when out of the corner of my ear I heard Jan say, “We’re thinking about swinging.” And Denise answered “Really? That’s funny, because we are swingers.” All conversation stopped and we looked at each other. I think everyone was so surprised that nothing more happened that night.

A couple of weeks later we had Bob and Denise over to our house. After dinner and conversation, much of which was about their experiences and reactions to swinging, we went up to our bedroom. Jan and I had agreed that we weren’t ready yet for a full swap but we were very excited by the idea of watching Bob and Denise fucking and then them watching us. We didn’t yet know the term or the idea of a soft swap.

Watching Denise suck Bob’s cock and then slide it into her pussy was one of the most exciting things either Jan or I had ever seen. We were both so turned on by the experience that I wasn’t sure that I was going to be able to let Jan touch my dick without an immediate orgasm. But we started foreplay on our bed and soon Jan was sitting on my face as I licked her clit. I could sort of hear Bob and Denise murmuring in the background.

Jan squirmed on my face and suddenly there was a mouth around my dick. I looked towards my toes and saw Denise sucking me with Bob standing behind her and between her legs fucking her as hard and as fast as he could go. My whole body tingled. For the first time in my life I had one woman grinding her pussy on my tongue and a second sucking my cock with all of her might. And at the same time her husband was pounding her ass as he fucked her for all he was worth.

I tapped Jan on the shoulder and pointed towards Denise and Bob. She turned and looked, grinned and ground her pussy into my tongue even harder. We were swingers at last.

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Love this thread.

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Wow , I was a 20yo boy accidently walk into a swingers bar at 3 pm In Louisiana you could drink at 18 at that time. I walked in there was two women and a lady bartender , The women was in their late 30's They was buying me drinks I fucked both women in front of the bartender , Here comes in to men their husbands I freckled out. They was so cool about it they were buying me drinks. They lived in a adults only apartment They even help me get a apartment there , I was a stud for the two women wild their husbands worked offshore , At 27 yo I met my first wife laying around the pool naked, I sleap with her and her girlfriend , She want a open marriage We married years pass, We hosted swinger parties strip poker games Her new lover a lawyer did not want me around We divorced, I married a Asian swinger she took me to a orgy on out first date. 25+ years her new lover a airline pilot was bi and sucked me regular with her , I was straight but open to play She got me drunk and pulled me down and we both sucked him off , I was 50 yo sucking my first cock. After a few years she wanted a simple divorced , she got some money I got the house boat and cars , Am 62 now remarried to a woman 20 years younger , She on a date with a doctor said she will be back monday She met him today and said he made her panties wet . am 62 now and my best day's are over The only thing that is good is that am still friends with all my ex wives And I like that. My wife is writing a love novel I think she doing research now

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danmanphillyfan: No, I am not in the military anymore. My wife has said she has no desire at all to play alone.

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LiveitUp: Are you still in the military? If deployed again, would you let your wife play alone?

I find military swinging kinda hot.

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LiveItUp: welcome to the forums!

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We are very new at this. I was in the military and deployed to Afghanistan and my wife and I would exchange explicit emails every so often. In one of those emails she mentioned the possibility of going to a swinger club, or having a threesome with another female. By the time I got back home a few months later, she had ruled out singles at all, but was still interested in having public sex and/or playing with another couple. After a few weeks home, we became free members on this site and a few others. We eventually started talking to another newbie couple and stopped using the sites altogether. We talked to them exclusively for a few months. We eventually met them and had a fun time, but we did not play with them. We are still not sure why nothing happened, because we seemed to have hit it off with them pretty well. I think everyone may have been too nervous to initiate anything. She is more pessimistic than I am, and she thinks the other wife may not have been interested in her for some reason. My wife's very introverted, and the other wife was nice, but not as talkative and sociable as her husband. Honestly, I think that was the big issue between them. Most people she talks to are kind of sociable and outgoing, it counteracts her being a quiet introvert. A few weeks after that meeting we got paid memberships on this site and another. We learned a few lessons: 1. Do not put all your eggs in one basket, 2. It's probably much better to keep the texting/emailing to a minimum and meet in person early as possible after a short screening of the other couple, no need to do that more than a few times before meeting somewhere in public with no expectations.

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Donnell: My Sister told Us one day on they phone about Swinger Clubs and let Us know it was a Couple of Them in Maryland. We mutually decided to attend with the understanding that We just wanted to see if We could watch Live Sex. It was such a Turn On to watch Others make out and have Sex, so then We would get a Room by Ourselves and have Sex.

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In my post I wrote "The wife was not ready. On the period and not cool with the chick. She was a creepy weirdo. But we did it. We showed up. We had balls" to avoid misunderstanding I did not mean we went through with something we were not both into I merely meant we actually showed up. Nothing happened. I mentioned that because in our limited and brief LS experience - most don't even show up. That is all. :)

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I (husband) brought it up. Scariest moment of my life. Wife was visibly upset. Thought I wanted to cheat and that everything was changing. Kind of pointed out the obvious - if cheting were the goal then I wouldn't tell her about it! LOTS of talking ensued. In the interim communication increased 1000 fold about EVERYTHING we became closer and more open. The sex got hotter and inhibitions flew out the window.

We started off with a Craig's list ad. Actually were contacted by a unicorn! We went to a bar and met her and went back to her place. The wife was not ready. On the period and not cool with the chick. She was a creepy weirdo. But we did it. We showed up. We had balls.

A few weeks later we went to a free tour of a sex club near our home. Sat in the parking lot for awhile. I was scared to go in. The wife? Raring to go. In we went. She led the way. Back in the car she was totally into joining and thought it looked fun. We joined and stayed. Saw and heard many great sexy things - fucked like animals.

Then came the shoes. The clothes. The nails. The hair. She was experiencing a complete coming out. She loves to dress slutty and go out. Then came the stories and admissions. She likes girls and was much wilder than I had known in her past. There are zero barriers in our bedroom and our sex life has exploded.

Then one night at the club a local group was there for an outing. A group called Sex Positive Portland (Oregon). They specialize in open, respectful, non threatening, consensual communication and adult activities. We were approached and met with several members. One gentleman took an interest in the wife after meeting us. We all ended up on the dance floor. She ended up kissing us and groping us both. VERY hot. Eventually getting the hand job of a lifetime from him resulting in her first g-spot orgasm. She finished it off by blowing him on the dance floor.

That was followed by a soft 4 way, and a same room encounter with another couple. Just sex in the same room. No intra couple touching. Which was admittedly pretty hot though tame. We're headed toward our first full swap and many other things we are ready to try. Slow and steady we are taking things as they come and enjoying the ride. We regularly go to two clubs and two different meet and greets. We also joined Sex Positive Portland and have attended a few of their events including a class called "Mapping The Vulva" where I learned the skills to give my wife the same earth shattering orgasms she had the first night we ventured from voyeur to participant. We have met some very cool people along the way. And some creepy weirdos. But it's OUR adventure and always a lot of fun.

It has categorically changed our lives for the better. It sounds counter intuitive but opening our relationship to sexual activity with others has brought us closer together. Weird. Though middle aged parents and suburbanites Sunday through Friday, on Saturday nights the heels come out, the slutty clothes go on and we go out for OUR night. Don't wait up. We'll be late.........

So much fun. This Saturday? A club outing with Sex Positive Portland. The theme? Naughty School Girl. We already have the outfit and shoes ready to go. We enjoy finding delicious new outfits for her to wear together. Never liked shopping before, but that kind of shopping I can do!

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