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TOPIC: How_did_it_start_
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Who in your relationship brought up the idea of swinging? When it was brought up what was the reaction? How did they bring it up? How long did it take for you to act on it as a couple? A lot of questions I know but I am just interested on how everyone else got started

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OK, here is our story....

Dominican Republic Feb 2015. Top optional beach. She was very shy about removing her top. We started talking to a couple, his wife went topless, and my wife did the same. He commented (and she heard him) wow, your wife has great tits. I replied Thank You, and she smiled, with such a glow that I had never seen before. We hung out with them for a few days. No playing, strictly vanilla. She had a great time hanging and flirting with other people.

When we got home, she said, "You need to find some adult parties that we can go to."

I did a google search, and kept finding listings on SLS. I (we) joined. I found a club (SinZ) near us. They were having "Newbie" night (no play on site, looked pretty safe). I signed up, and told her we were going out on Saturday. I told her to wear her sexiest dress. She was very vanilla (compared to now), that first night. She asked WHERE are we going, I told her "I will tell you when we are on our way". We had fun that night, and she was willing to go to another party. That first 2 months, we were at a LS party every weekend. She liked the attention, and the company of other couples. The sexy atmosphere got her very, VERY horny.

We did our first FULL swap about 6 weeks into the LS. We did some fumbling, and bumbling at first. The Forums help us out huge!! We started with rules, and took it slow. Now the only rule is condoms during intercourse, and she doesn't like anal. We prefer to play together (4-way, same bed), but we do separate sometimes. I love watching her suck, get eaten, and ride another guy, while I am playing with someone else.

The LS has really helped her self esteem. It has also made us more horny for each other when we are alone. She really likes the fact that she can have sex with a sexy younger guy, and not have to bring him home :) I love eating a sexy lady, and having her cum all over my face. She is starting to explore her Bi-side. Something she thought never existed. Like the LS, she is taking it slow, and she is very particular with whom she plays with (male or FM).

We have met a TON of great people here, most of them we haven't played with (yet). Outside of the sex, it is a great place to socialize, and if the mood strikes us, we play.

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@hornyingvlms - Cool start, communication is key. Life is to short to worry about what others are thinking. Thanks for posting.

Marietta OH
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a few months after we started dating I asked my wife(then she was girlfriend) about finding a girl for FMF. she agreed to try it, and then it progressed from there. She was NOT comfortable with swinging at all for the first several years. she would do it if drunk, but felt ashamed when sober. We never, ever, talked about it sober either. We finally had a talk and worked out the issues and now she is into it just as much if not more than me. She basically had to get to the point in her life where she no longer worried what others would think and that she just wants to have fun. if it ever becomes not fun for us, well then we will retire.

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My first wife and I belonged to a key club, when I was in the military. When we divorced, I did several mfm, mmf situations with married couples. Did alot of mm play also. Along came wife 2. Here was a 25 year old virgin, who said NO. Not without a ring. Before we married I told her I was bi, and I hoped we could meet others to play. We did do several 4 some s with other couples, but she didn't enjoy the fact I was fucking another lady. We tried several mmf tryst. She liked the attention of 2 cocks, and liked watching me and the other guy do each other. It was only with the cancer battles radiation and chemo that she lost all her sex interest, drive. She let's me have my mm play time.

Lyons NY
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@mycroftt2b

Great start guys. Welcome to the forum and welcome to SLS. :-)

Marietta OH
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When we first started going out I told her that she needed to know that I was a nudist and that I knew that I’d always want to have sex with more than one woman. We spent the first three or four years we were together trying to fuck each other’s brains out - which is what I imagine most new young couples do.

We talked about swinging but didn’t really know how to get started. In those days there were only regional magazines where you’d publish an ad and if you were really daring, a photo. We thought that was too risky. We also joined a nudist park and went there regularly. Late one night at the park we were talking with a couple we’d met. He and I were talking something, maybe cars and the women had their own conversation going, when out of the corner of my ear I heard Jan say, “We’re thinking about swinging.” And Denise answered “Really? That’s funny, because we are swingers.” All conversation stopped and we looked at each other. I think everyone was so surprised that nothing more happened that night.

A couple of weeks later we had Bob and Denise over to our house. After dinner and conversation, much of which was about their experiences and reactions to swinging, we went up to our bedroom. Jan and I had agreed that we weren’t ready yet for a full swap but we were very excited by the idea of watching Bob and Denise fucking and then them watching us. We didn’t yet know the term or the idea of a soft swap.

Watching Denise suck Bob’s cock and then slide it into her pussy was one of the most exciting things either Jan or I had ever seen. We were both so turned on by the experience that I wasn’t sure that I was going to be able to let Jan touch my dick without an immediate orgasm. But we started foreplay on our bed and soon Jan was sitting on my face as I licked her clit. I could sort of hear Bob and Denise murmuring in the background.

Jan squirmed on my face and suddenly there was a mouth around my dick. I looked towards my toes and saw Denise sucking me with Bob standing behind her and between her legs fucking her as hard and as fast as he could go. My whole body tingled. For the first time in my life I had one woman grinding her pussy on my tongue and a second sucking my cock with all of her might. And at the same time her husband was pounding her ass as he fucked her for all he was worth.

I tapped Jan on the shoulder and pointed towards Denise and Bob. She turned and looked, grinned and ground her pussy into my tongue even harder. We were swingers at last.

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Love this thread.

Marietta OH
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Wow , I was a 20yo boy accidently walk into a swingers bar at 3 pm In Louisiana you could drink at 18 at that time. I walked in there was two women and a lady bartender , The women was in their late 30's They was buying me drinks I fucked both women in front of the bartender , Here comes in to men their husbands I freckled out. They was so cool about it they were buying me drinks. They lived in a adults only apartment They even help me get a apartment there , I was a stud for the two women wild their husbands worked offshore , At 27 yo I met my first wife laying around the pool naked, I sleap with her and her girlfriend , She want a open marriage We married years pass, We hosted swinger parties strip poker games Her new lover a lawyer did not want me around We divorced, I married a Asian swinger she took me to a orgy on out first date. 25+ years her new lover a airline pilot was bi and sucked me regular with her , I was straight but open to play She got me drunk and pulled me down and we both sucked him off , I was 50 yo sucking my first cock. After a few years she wanted a simple divorced , she got some money I got the house boat and cars , Am 62 now remarried to a woman 20 years younger , She on a date with a doctor said she will be back monday She met him today and said he made her panties wet . am 62 now and my best day's are over The only thing that is good is that am still friends with all my ex wives And I like that. My wife is writing a love novel I think she doing research now

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danmanphillyfan: No, I am not in the military anymore. My wife has said she has no desire at all to play alone.

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LiveitUp: Are you still in the military? If deployed again, would you let your wife play alone?

I find military swinging kinda hot.

Reading PA
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