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Who in your relationship brought up the idea of swinging? When it was brought up what was the reaction? How did they bring it up? How long did it take for you to act on it as a couple? A lot of questions I know but I am just interested on how everyone else got started

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Welcome to the forums Kink!

Hot post. I think you have a great approach and, as far as I can tell, the right take on CL. Stick to real swinger sites and keep letting your bad girl set the pace and you guys will have a blast. If she's been a very good girl, and your budget can accommodate it, maybe take her to Desire or somewhere equally sensual with no expectation of play. Her bad twin might really let her hair down.

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Welcome to the forums Kink!

Hot post. I think you have a great approach and, as far as I can tell, the right take on CL. Stick to real swinger sites and keep letting your bad girl set the pace and you guys will have a blast. If she's been a very good girl, and your budget can accommodate it, maybe take her to Desire or somewhere equally sensual with no expectation of play. Her bad twin might really let her hair down.

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It started for us with a little game we played in Vegas while at our timeshare. Mrs Kink has always liked to be tied up, and I suspected there might be more to this. So we played a little game I called "Bad Girl / Good Girl" the rules were simple; I asked her simple yes or no questions of a sexual nature. If it was something she would like, was curious about, or absolutely loved she would answer "Yes, I'm a Bad Girl" if it was something she would NOT like, was NOT curious about, or had no interest in she would reply with a simple "No, I'm a Good Girl." She wasn't allowed to elaborate on her replies, but she was allowed to change her answer. I did this while brushing her hair (something she absolutely loves) and without any fear of reprisal since it was all fantasy anyway. The things I learned, aligned amazingly similar to my own. A few months later while at a local winery / little resort, we had an amazing weekend of nearly non-stop sex. While she was tied up I concocted fantasies that were in line with the things I had learned from Vegas. It wasn't until a year later (occasionally engaging in fantasy talks) before she dropped a major hint that she wanted 2 cocks, after a real and thoughtful discussion I began a real search for real advise from real swingers (because everyone knows Craigslist is for serial killers). Our intro/first experience is in our profile and I am pretty sure we are in the lifestyle for the long haul now! Mr Kink

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@North. Agree!

Marietta OH
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DS. She just became my fantasy as well. Haha

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Dallas GA
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Nice Start @dsloving74 Thanks for Sharing.

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About a year ago the wife started asking me what my ultimate fantasy was sexually. This may sound corny but she is my fantasy. Our sex seems to only get better as time goes on. She attracts attention where ever we go as she is outgoing and thrives in a social environment. So I think over time her curiosity got her thinking about how much fun it could be to include others. She revealed she really wanted to have another woman join us and after about a month of discussing we experienced one. She found out she loves being with women and how much she loves watching me with other women. We laugh about because she originally had a list of boundaries and things she didn't want me to do before our first threesome. 5 minutes into the action she quickly changed her mind and we pretty much did everything she had on her "not-to-do" list. We've now talked about joining another couple and have met some. But nothing's grabbed her interest like the fmf aspect. We both are addicted and enjoy 2-3 sessions a month so our hunt for another couple has not gotten very serious as her appetite for women is steadily available. Knowing how much pleasure she derives from watching me, I truly would love to watch her with another man. She still has shown no real interest but who knows what the future holds. A lot can change in 5 minutes. A couple years ago I'd not even considered we'd be doing this, but I will never complain and look forward to many more exciting and crazy nights.

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This is MaryGirl's Husband. It was the winter of 1980. I was really feeling the 7 year itch. I had talked with Mary about swinging since before we got married, but we never got around to it in the 70's. She was too scared.

Took her to a party. She had a drink. That one drink really lowered her inhibitions. Or did she just use it as an excuse? She discovered she really enjoys prancing around naked in front of people. The next party she discovered she likes getting fucked by strangers in front of a crowd.

Life got in the way, and now we haven't done anything this century. How boring.

Fishkill NY
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on one of our 1st big dates in the mid 1980's. Ray took me to a park on a sunny Sunday in August and he had prepared a small picnic for us. we had been dating for 3 months and had not had sex yet. he laid out the blanket we sat in the middle of the family area beside a large oak tree. we hadn't eaten any of the snacks he brought and after about an hour of talking and touching we were electrically charged like being struck by lighting. we had been kissing and fondling each other and this kept escalating in a very erotic way. he slid his hand under my tube top and started touching my nipples and I could see about 20 people staring right at us less than 100 feet away as we did this. I was afraid of all the other people around us too because it was a major picnic area and there were at least 100 - 200 people nearby that I could see were watching our display. I was trembling with excitement like I had never felt before and was unable to resist. Ray says he likes it when people watch us kiss and make out but I tell him I am loosing control and they are going to see a lot more of me then he wants them to.

all he said was lucky them.

I climbed on his lap pulling his shorts to the side and pulling out his cock while he moved my terrycloth shorts over ripping the seam on the leg as I slid down onto him. It felt like hours but I am sure it was only a few mins the excitement was burned into my brain and I wanted more. I collapsed into his arms and we sat like that for a few more mins. I could not get cleaned up but I slowly stood up feeling my legs drenched in a mixture we had just created while I tried to hold my shorts from falling off. Ray grabbed the 4 corners of our blanket with all our things inside and we walked back to the car.

the looks we got from people as we walked through the crowd was unreal and erotic to the extreme. I discovered I like being naughty and we started to explore our desires that have now led us to here.

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Okay, here we go...Mrs. Gunz had a MFM in her past with a terrible ex which was not a fun time. Now that we are together and best friends we have amazing communication and the lovemaking is even better. Anyway, we have lots of sex and stumbled onto Tumbl r and saw a lot of what we liked and wanted to try. We have an account which is very hot BTW which has brought us here to SLS.

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