Hitting it off with one person in the couple: Swingers Discussion 2080801031

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Hitting it off with one person in the couple: Swingers Discussion 2080801031

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TOPIC: Hitting it off with one person in the couple

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User Details are only visible to members.	" I disagree with the statement that men are more apt to judge a woman by her looks. From myself and what I have seen women tend to be MUCH more picky looks wise than men... " My wife swears that in couples profiles, there's a preponderance of good looking women with unattractive men. So in our case, it could also be said that the woman is "much more picky looks wise". But "good looking" is entirely subjective, and we don't know if she's being picky, or if the men are just ugly. I have no idea what looks good to a woman. I expressed a distinction between "traditional" and "lifestyle" male and female tendencies. I don't equate "connection" -- which can be for an evening, or momentary, like a meeting of the eyes -- and "attachment", which implies a lasting connection.
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2825 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I don't need an emotional connection, I do need certain personality traits. Are you saying alot of men here don't need/want that?? I can't really believe that. It's making me think a sex doll would be all that's needed then." I def agree with you sexy. I disagree with the statement that men are more apt to judge a woman by her looks. From myself and what I have seen women tend to be MUCH more picky looks wise than men. Jay is what I would consider a picky guy, and he is very much more quick to play based on the pure fun/I am not dating her and personality aspect. Me...if he is not attractive to my eyes, unless there is another specific trait that intrigues me such as intelligence or wit...its not happening. Women I have seen really are more picky than their male counterparts.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23661 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"KD, once again we complee agreetly. Sorry if I was too succinct. I figure "more apt" is about the same as "more likely" or "greater tendency"; in both cases, a generalizaiton relative to the opposite sex." No no, I think 'more apt' was fine, lol, you were not too succinct. I just think here in regards to swinging, women are even -more, -more apt, to not thinking so traditional. (did that make sense? lol) More open and free about enjoying sex for sex's sake, not needing much, if any, emotional connection ...sort of like a man in real life, lol. I actually do agree with many of your posts, didn't know you did with mine. :) Chimera, I think many people believe that to be true. :) Akron, I am aware I used 3 lol's here in my post and it is because I wanted to. :-o
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Re: our situation with the younger couple.... We think the guy was more into me than the woman was into hubby. Her body language (sitting so she was turned away from the conversation, keeping sunglasses on, looking away, etc) and lack of verbal communication at the meeting was pretty clear. We actually saw them at a public event a couple weeks later meeting up with another (younger) LS couple and she was waaayyyy more animated, smiley and talkative with the other couple. Like a totally different person. It's all a learning experience for us....
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (440 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Nobody is every body's cup of tea, but everybody is somebody's cup of tea...
Charlotte NC			Username hidden (544 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	KD, once again we complee agreetly. Sorry if I was too succinct. I figure "more apt" is about the same as "more likely" or "greater tendency"; in both cases, a generalizaiton relative to the opposite sex. We ask for a sense of humor. People write us inane or desultory comments, sprinkled with "LOL". I figure they're about as unfunny in person: The type that laughs loudly at their own jokes and interrupt others'. If I don't "connect" with a person's humor, they aren't funny or amusing or engaging. A "pleasant personality" is more of a summary of your feelings across many aspects.
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2825 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"There is no such thing as "no personality." ---- I agree, after all, showing no signs of a personality is in fact a personality. That is true. And if you think as long as she looks hot, she will be a hot fuck, well, good for you and I'm sure it always works out that way for you. I still think, even you have some standards, physical appearance aside, but you don't have to admit it. :) I think 'many' men that swing, have plenty (or their share) of standards, aside from physical appearance, no matter what the traditional thinking is. Maybe less then most women, but they have them.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ugly people know who they are.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	There is no such thing as "no personality."
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"If a chick's hot it pretty easy to overlook a personality flaw. Ask any guy." I totally agree, but Wanna was describing someone who showed no signs of personality at all. If a 'personality flaw' and 'no personality' are the same to you, then I understand your opinion. I think there's a big difference. I won't respond to your 2nd statement at all because what's ugly to you may not be ugly to someone else.
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