Hitting it off with one person in the couple: Swingers Discussion 2080801021

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TOPIC: Hitting it off with one person in the couple

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User Details are only visible to members.	" We might be happy to spectate, happy for our partners' pleasure; and indulge in decent massaging and stroking and happy kisses. It could be a lot worse, and it might get even better. " ---- exactly! I'm not saying this is for everyone or even saying this is how every playdate should be. But sometimes, if you're not in the mood to go home, and do meet nice folks,but one is not into the other half of the couple sexually, I think it's possible to still be fun. I do think tho..... personalities matter here. Like in your example, If you and I were not okay, and did not enjoy each others company at all, for that time, no it would not work. I also have NO doubt that this would only work for people who 'also like threesomes' and should have said that already. If you don't, no this is not a possibility or a suggestion...
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	oh Sweet, I wasn't 'saying', I am 'asking' if that can work or if its common to happen or not. No, I would never tell anyone to do anything that they didn't want to do!!! ever!!! To be honest it sort of happened to me once, and I say sort of because there were other complications that happened and do consider this playdate a mistake, ........but it was not the play time. We were with a couple, and he was not into me sexually, and I was fine with that because my husband was having fun and I love seeing that, and I was involved with them here and there. It was like an FMF with a less involved watcher and he played with her at times too. Complication: They were new to this LS, and what I did not know, was he was not very comfortable seeing his wife with another man and got all moody somewhere in the middle. But it was not about me ...not being wanted by him. I was fine and still think it can be fun. Not ideal, but I feel maybe it can work for some people if they are honest and okay with it.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	So kind, what you saying is that I should be willing to just sit and watch my wife play with a couple. and that my wife should joyfully want to play with people who find the love of her life to unattractive or not good enough to join the fun.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2186 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	KD, suppose that hypothetically our mates hit it off spectacularly, while you and I were merely tolerant-to-fond of one another. (: :) We might be happy to spectate, happy for our partners' pleasure; and indulge in decent massaging and stroking and happy kisses. It could be a lot worse, and it might get even better.
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2787 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If a couple hits it off with just one person of the couple, how common (or not) is it for 3 people out of 4 to agree to play, and the 4th just be a watcher and just play with his/her spouse? (and of course openly discussed) Isn't that better (for that 4th person) then going home sometimes? It could still be fun, no? Now I'm not saying walk into a bedroom with someone that repulses you, but I'm pretty picky I guess, and if I liked that male, just not enough to want to have sex with him, couldn't it still be fun for all? Isn't that a possibility ...or a suggestion?
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yea, I don't like the word attachment at all. It seems more serious than I would ever mean it or want it. 'Ongoing connection' feels better to me. ty :)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lost I agree 100% women are a whole lot more judgmental when it comes to looks. so much so that sometime I wonder how most of the men of couples who have turned us down ever get laid. Some of these men have actually told my wife that their wives are so picky that they never get to play.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2186 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Fast friends?
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2787 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	An ongoing connection is becoming an attachment. You can't say "we're engaged", because that meaning is taken. :)
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2787 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I don't equate "connection" -- which can be for an evening, or momentary, like a meeting of the eyes -- and "attachment", which implies a lasting connection." ----- I agree. :) But... (lol sorry!) then again, being that we would like to meet people to have repeated dates with here and there, I suppose there is something about that temporary 'connection' that we would need to 'last'. Yet I wouldn't call it an 'attachment' either. I need a middle word.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

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