Hard time finding regular full time swing friends: Swingers Discussion 118232

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TOPIC: Hard time finding regular full time swing friends

Created by: Aynor69	The original post for this thread was deleted.

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User Details are only visible to members.	For us, we actually have found great friends, and we get together not only for sex, but for other things as well. If the sex ever "stops" then we would still be friends. We realize that's rare. But it's nice for us. Also nice for us is the spontaneity of meeting new people, friends or just casual acquaintenances. We don't sweat it. Or push it. It just happens. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lisa, we can relate. I think few realize just how trying couple/couple play can be. People think that the FMF is rough...but finding a couple where there is attraction for all, fun times, both cocks are operational lol, no drama with wives....thats like pulling a monkey out of your arse. We take things as they come but we no longer really rely on playing with other couples either.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23651 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We aren't interested in full time swing friends. About once a month is enough!!!!! Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	its very difficult to find regular full time swing partners close enough (<5 miles) to be friends with. It is pretty ez to find couples rarin to go at the clubs and hotel parties though.
Charlotte NC			Username hidden (54 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	When we first started out in the lifestyle we were thinking we could find a cpl that could become great friends in and out of the bedroom. We could hang out and BBQ, dinner, dancing, road trips, sex, ect... I believe for several reasons now that I look back at it. 1. We didn't want to be bed hoppers because of the disease thing. 2. It's hard to find a cpl that all 4 are looking for the same exact things. 3. Even with SLS and clubs it's hard to get the ball rolling with a cpl. 4. There are alot of nuts out there. 5. For me it's hard to make the first move and for some it's sometimes considered rude for the male 1/2 to make the first move. 6. Some people have so many rules that it's hard to read the playbook. 7. Some people find the "meet and greet" period stimulating while I find it nerve wracking. 8. Alot of people don't come straight out and tell you likes and dislikes. It is fun to explore and learn "the tricks" but sometimes can be frustrating. 9. Don't you hate those dry spells when it would be so great to just make a call and spur of the minute to go play! and so on and so on..... So wouldn't a longterm friendship/sexual relationship with another cpl be great? For some they are lucky enough to find this. For others like us it didn't happen. But to be very honest, as time went by and we discovered our likes and dislikes more (which is one of the benefits I really love about the lifestyle-You open up so much more to your partner) we found what we were searching for. Which is why we are currently looking for single straight males only. Now I will not be foolish enough to say that we will never change. 7 yrs ago I remember saying to my husband "oh I could never do this or that" and today I can't wait for this or that to happen again. We have learned 2 lessons from the lifestyle- Never say never! and Always remember that no matter what happens or wherever this road may lead you-if you are a cpl-The most fun you will ever have is with your partner!! So just have fun and be good to each other! You'll find what you want if you stay patient and listen to each other. If you find that one great cpl have a blast!!! XOXOXOX Lisa
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (9 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You'll find that the longer you are involved in posting, that many of us like to post off topic a bit, and share our experiences, even if you do have a more specific question! hehehee.... Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	guys -- Aynor69 was looking for -- "a local couple to form a friendship to see on a regular basis and that it would hopefully last a lifetime." We agree that if we are only looking for playmates, we avoid politics and religion like the plague, but this couple is looking for a whole lot more. It is almost as if your mate announced to you that s/he was going Rastafarian or joining the Aryan Nation -- are you telling me that wouldn't strain the ol' relationship? these folks seem to be looking for soul mates, unless I read them wrong. True soul mates are pretty close on the great philosophies of life-- or they don't stay soul mates long. IMHO- Chet
Charlotte NC			Username hidden (544 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Just tell them you vote for blow jobs from all, across the board.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23651 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We resist talking about religion or politics, too. In our experience, nobody ever changed anyone else's mind, so all that can be accomplished is creation of hard feelings. We will discuss Wall Street, the energy crisis, the state of the economy, nature, photography, history, genealogy, the movies, etc., but the moment the discussion gets tinged with political dogma, we exit the conversation. Nothing can change a sexy person into scum faster than political or religious dogma that differs from your own. So when someone starts in about politics or religion, stick something in their mouth to shut them up! Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I hear you Gina. A very good friend of mine REFUSES to discuss religion or politics of any sort. It can get nasty in truth lol. I don't know though...I guess when you see it in the light of we all are entitled to our own opinions you don't get as upset.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23651 post)

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