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Hello
We have only been in this lifestyle for 2 years, and have never been to a club yet. We have always kind of felt intimidated by them, We like to interact with couples in a less crowded enviroment. Recently we have had some of our freinds talking about how much fun they have had at this club so we just decided... Why not? lol We were just wondering if anyone in here could give us club newbies some advice or tips on our first time out. Thanks in advance |
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Aww that was sweet.
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Haha!! Yes, this is true...however...if you ever reach a point where the one you are married to is just the one you are with...well then you have an issue my friend :0).
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I never go into any club, swinger or vanilla, with the intention of fucking. The only one I "assume" I will be fucking is my husband. Thus no pressure. Simply go to have fun. I always feel bad for those predatorial swingers who only see fucking others as having met their "goal".
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Thank you dahling...but I own a pair as well!!!
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Shel you can borrow my boots!
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Augusta NJ |
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I could totally see you as a go go dancer...
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I go for one reason and one reason only. To party my ass off, dance my ass off and live hard. Well, thats a few actually. I often am guilty of zoning out when I am at a club because my only focus is dancing and enjoying myself. I could be a very happy gogo dancer. Just have fun. Who gives a shit if others have issues. As long as you have fun, thats what should matter to you.
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Go to have fun with each other
No expectations Wear something you like on yourselves, nice, but not uncomfortable or you'll be tugging at your clothes the whole time Be confident Flirt with your spouse They are all just people, just like you...don't be intimidated. Ask a question, say hi, get out of your comfort zone a little, ask to be introduced to someone, etc Keep to your previously set boundaries, especially if you get caught up in a "moment." It's easy to do, and you don't want regrets. Communicate with your spouse afterwards: what you liked, what you didn't, what was fun, what was not... Enjoy, G. |
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Why not set a date with a few couples you know and all go to the club together? That way they are essentially an insulation/barrier for you and you're not standing around by yourselves sticking out like a sore thumb should you not interact with anyone else right away. Strength sometimes in numbers.
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Be yourself
Go at your pace, not someone elses Dress to impress No means no Most of all ,have an awesome time! |
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