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Bang on G.
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VaB, it wasn't that mean, it was kind of bang on.
You've got me going with the phrase bang on, btw. Bang on. Like, let's get our bang on! BANG on! Bang ON! Gee, Dan's been gone for a week, can you tell? G. |
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It's not easy for a lot of new swingers to get past that gut-wrenching feeling. We dealt with it by:
1) using separate rooms so we didn't have to watch each other. 2) reminding ourselves that the sun would still come up the next morning. 3) reminding ourselves that we don't want to steal anyone's spouse; we just want to "borrow" them for a little while. 4) enjoying the heck out of "reclaiming" each other for the next week or two. 5) and most of all reminding ourselves in the immortal words of the lovely Paula "It's ONLY fucking!" Jim |
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"i thought soft swap ...is trading partners, but not intercourse... am i wrong? "
Lady K, soft swap is however you want to define it. It could be the women playing together but not with each other's man, or hetero foreplay without full intercourse, or simply watch and be watched. Since there is so much variation, it is ALWAYS good to talk about what you want and don't want before playing with people. And since your wishes may have changed from the previous time you met up with someone, the conversation will need to be repeated. Don't be shy! |
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i never worry about another woman taking my husband. He gets the kids.
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I like thin crust pizza.
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Gina is bang-on.
Couples who continue to swing through their relationship problems tend to do even more damage. They also tend to piss off all of their friends, become pariahs, and move to a town with good deep dish pizza, and divorce anyway, right Gina? Ok that was mean..... inside joke.... |
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