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TOPIC: Getting nothing but trying
Created by: 2lookingfor1forfun
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We discovered we enjoy a threesome once in a blue moon when the opportunity strikes. Lately we have been seeing a blue moon and wishing for a opportunity, so we came here with the hopes of finding a woman to join us. Granted we are far from full time swingers. We really are noobs and have no issue admitting it. We only would like to have a more trustworthy relationship and not a bump and run with a woman who would join us. Actually the idea of a full time gf and lover is where we stand at the moment. Just because of the risks that can be found if we were to have several lovers and hoped around. So...anyways...our question is....why is it sooooo.so so hard to find this?

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Do a forum search for "unicorn" and you'll get an idea of what you're up against. Wish we had a dime for every newbie couple we've seen looking for a SF,ROFL.

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2looking,

Welcome to the forums!

If you do some detailed reading on here, you'll find that single women are often called unicorns because they're so rare. It's not that there are none, but they're in great demand from practically all the other members.

I'm not sure if you're expecting them to come to you after reading your profile, but I can tell you that that is very unlikely to happen. Single women tend to have overflowing mailboxes filled with offers to play. If you've been contacting single women and not hearing back, understand that what you're offering has to be competitive (better, really) than all the other offers. That will depend on your profile and the contact message you send them.

You do need to do a bit of work on your profile. There's a forum here in which people will read your profile and offer advice. That would be a good places to start.

ST

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We discovered we enjoy a threesome once in a blue moon when the opportunity strikes. Lately we have been seeing a blue moon and wishing for a opportunity, so we came here with the hopes of finding a woman to join us. Granted we are far from full time swingers. We really are noobs and have no issue admitting it. We only would like to have a more trustworthy relationship and not a bump and run with a woman who would join us. Actually the idea of a full time gf and lover is where we stand at the moment. Just because of the risks that can be found if we were to have several lovers and hoped around. So...anyways...our question is....why is it sooooo.so so hard to find this?

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TOPIC: Getting nothing but trying