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NIC, good luck. she has ZERO interest in DVP. and i can honestly say, i am not complaining about that one at all.

as for the mmf or mmmf, she'll race you to the hotel. LOL

and btw, you and FUN should have been politicians. not so much for your speaking ability, although you're both quite eloquent, but rather for your uncanny sense of when to stay very quiet... eating popcorn and such. ;-)

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We have a couple of fun places in AC and Philadelphia. You might need to make a road trip!

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Fun, let's drag K into the 3-Some discussion about DP and DVP....top or bottom doesn't matter as long as she is in between!

;-D

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Hi st, I might also suggest going to a club with a single woman with whom you are comfortable and have had no issues or is cool with the issue. That way there is no pressure to perform, and you can get used to all of the "stimuli" around you. I found that with all of the friendly people, and the music and dancing and, of course, a little bit of alcohol, I got out of my brain and into my body. It also leaves it up to you how many or how few you choose to play with.

I have had the hardness issue come up(or not as the case may be), and unless the guy is a total douchecanoe, I think most women are really understanding and try to be as helpful as possible, especially if you are up front about it.

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:-)

K

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Random fact: I'd like to post right on top of K, and I'm not talking about writing anything on a message board. :)

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Don't know what that means.....

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Counting down for jk to chime in. Five Four Three Two One . . . .

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If you can get a good erection (even if it's just by masturbation) then you don't suffer from physical ED. No amount of Viagra will help if it's some mental block. Don't overthink things; just focus on pleasuring the sexy woman you're with, and let nature take it's course. If that doesn't work, don't worry about it. Not everyone is cut out for performing with an audience. The lifestyle generally requires that men be able to perform, but I've heard of guys who have developed excellent massage and oral skills, who some couples seem to like on occasion. Just be honest and don't mislead a couple into thinking you are something you are not. Good luck to you.

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She said "head" game....hehehe

My advice? Meet rdy123, she can fix what ails ya!

Seriously, Deb is right. the more time you spend in the erotically charged atmosphere of clubs or parties or just with sexy, sensual couples, the easier it is to forget your anxieties and just "be in the moment". This is the one time when it's ok to just let THAT head take over because in those situations, the one on your shoulders is just going to get in the way.

In other words, clear your mind and enjoy the ride!

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