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TOPIC: Getting a New Group Party to Relax and Play
Created by: candjcpl2
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We have a vision of getting a group of swingers together (newbies and oldies) for a party. We enjoy provocative teasing and foreplay before anything else starts -especially considering we may have guests at different levels of play. We have a few friends who just strip and go, but we are interested in not scaring our new friends. Any ideas out there on how to break the ice with a new group of 'friends' at a party that would be considered provocative and introduction play?

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You said it VA, nothing beats a hot tub.

I have enjoyed the classic games of Twister and Spin the Bottle as an adult though.

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Hardly anything is as good for this as getting everyone naked together in the hot tub.

Jim

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Thanks Toptim!

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Bonis_Duo, welcome to the fora. When I get back home to Memphis, I'd love to say hello.

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What a lot of great responses! We experienced several of the suggestions here when we attended our first get together! There was a juvenile, but rife with fun game of spin the bottle! The hosts demo'd the Hitachi! (Bummer, I ride a motorcycle, so I wasn't that impressed, LOL!) Music and we even watched a video "intro to swinging" which was actually QUITE informative! We really appreciated that the co-hosts of the evening, while seasoned swingers, were very comfortable and happy to accommodate our slower pace. There was immediate toplessness for the ladies but that's really never a problem, is it? Even in vanilla settings, girlfriends like to take their tops off and get comfy! ;) Enjoy your party! Inviting a diverse group of folks is sure to invite a great night! MrsB

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Our latest board game acquisition is "I've Never... the board game" Adult edition. It's got a lot of sexxy ice breaker questions with a sprinkling of drinks, truth or dare and optional stripping.

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We had some total newbies at one party and the icebreaker we used was a Q&A session where they could ask any questions they wanted. They were shy at first because of so many unknowns. We reassured them and answered all their questions and they became more comfortable.

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That's a really good question because everyone has been the new person to a group event at sometime.

One idea that might help is invite the newbies to come over an hour or two before the more experienced ones. This way they can have some time to chat and bond with you before things get interesting. Tell them you could use a little help setting up. Another idea might be to chat about this with the more experienced friends ahead of time and separately and let them know this is the other folks frist time.

One interesting ice breaker we've always wanted to try, and this may sound silly, is a small bit of slow dancing where you switch partners after each song. Just one vanilla slow dance per combination, nothing more. If you wanted to make it spicy, make the guys wear blindfolds. Then only the women know who is who but everyone similing with their eyes darting around afterwards wondering..

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We have a vision of getting a group of swingers together (newbies and oldies) for a party. We enjoy provocative teasing and foreplay before anything else starts -especially considering we may have guests at different levels of play. We have a few friends who just strip and go, but we are interested in not scaring our new friends. Any ideas out there on how to break the ice with a new group of 'friends' at a party that would be considered provocative and introduction play?

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TOPIC: Getting a New Group Party to Relax and Play