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TOPIC: Full swap date -- prelude

Created by: enigma322 Original Starting post for this thread:
I did not know how to word this. Wife and I were in one full swap. We had date for drinks. Then next date had dinner, hung out in our hot tub and things progressed. We all knew why we were there but it seemed natural. We were wondering. On the second playdate, when there is going to be sex, how do people handle it. We don't want to show up at someones house and say we are here lets go fuck. Can people recommend ice breakers? We like foreplay. Not just naked foreplay. Unfortunately, it is too cold for the Hot tub. LOL Thanks.

Created by: enigma322
Original Starting post for this thread:

I did not know how to word this.
Wife and I were in one full swap. We had date for drinks. Then next date had dinner, hung out in our hot tub and things progressed. We all knew why we were there but it seemed natural.

We were wondering. On the second playdate, when there is going to be sex, how do people handle it. We don't want to show up at someones house and say we are here lets go fuck.

Can people recommend ice breakers? We like foreplay. Not just naked foreplay. Unfortunately, it is too cold for the Hot tub. LOL

Thanks.

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User Details are only visible to members.	My husband would love it if a wife were to come in and say "Here we are, let's go fuck." hahaha. Or even if I said it to him! (which I do, sometimes) All it needs to start it all off is a kiss or a prolonged caress. You can even achieve the "get the party started" by starting things off with your OWN spouse, taking off her top, or just kissing passionately, touching each other, etc., and then giving the other couple a nice look and inviting gesture. What usually worked for us in our home when we had a couple over, after talking a while, (this was with several couples all standing around) was that I went over to a male pal who was sitting on the couch and knelt in front of him. He got the idea very quickly and down came the zipper. Good luck. It does take some practice to read people, but hopefully you'll enjoy couples where it doesn't take all night to get the "hint." Gina
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User Details are only visible to members.	Since you're girl is straight, Mrs. Pixie wouldn't just tackle her like she's been known to do... LOL! We've played Wii Sports a couple times. You just make up rules so that the loser has to do something (take off a piece of clothing, kiss somebody, etc...). Or, the winner gets to choose to have someone do something. Strip poker works too. There's some naughty dice you can buy too. We've done truth of dare too. Once the mood is established, nature tends to take it's course. Just make sure you have the sexual rules and boundaries established before escalating things too far, or too fast. Good luck!
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User Details are only visible to members.	You can get some fun and sex related board games at spencer gifts. Just a thought.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I did not know how to word this. Wife and I were in one full swap. We had date for drinks. Then next date had dinner, hung out in our hot tub and things progressed. We all knew why we were there but it seemed natural. We were wondering. On the second playdate, when there is going to be sex, how do people handle it. We don't want to show up at someones house and say we are here lets go fuck. Can people recommend ice breakers? We like foreplay. Not just naked foreplay. Unfortunately, it is too cold for the Hot tub. LOL Thanks.
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