First meet, and tips or suggestions: Swingers Discussion 390541011

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User Details are only visible to members.	A little late, but for Mrs. Western and I, it's sometimes it's hard to tell what the other is thinking. Let's say it's going along just fine, and then we get invited to their house or I want to invite them to our house. I keep looking for Mrs. Western to say a code word that means No. Let's say it's "elephant." If I hear that, I can gently steer the conversation away from intimate suggestions. If I don't hear it, we let nature take it's course.
Shadyside PA			Username hidden (319 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I had a vascetomy many years ago. My wife bought a pack of condoms, no a box, just yesterday. So I know that she is also ready. I never did like wearing a condom. We will not be let down if nothing happens on Friday. We will go home and have another teriffic evening of sex.
Pottstown PA			Username hidden (242 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for all the advise. As far as drinking and getting drunk. That will not happen to us. We do not drink, AT ALL. So whatever we say and do will come from our hearts and souls. We will be fully aware of everything that is said and done. We are both very excited, anxious and also nervous about meeting our very first couple. Will we be compatible and impress them enough to take it to the next step. We are so ready for this that we both hope so. 49 hours and counting!
Pottstown PA			Username hidden (242 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	there is nothing odd to what you want ,wish for. Great rule to think by, There is no wrong or right way to swing only the way that you are most comfortable in what you want to do.
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (2070 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks to all of you for your input. We will proceed with caution. We have been married for 32 years and today we talked a long time on what we might expect and some rules that might have to be made. One thing we both agreed on was separate rooms. Especially for that first time. Is that normal to want that and is it possible for our first time? We are just a typical married couple that is not into anything kinky, okay sometimes she will tie my hands together but thats it. We are not onto pain or anything odd or unusual. We both think separate rooms would make it easier for that first time. Who knows maybe separate rooms for an hour or so and then we all get together.
Pottstown PA			Username hidden (242 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	our suggestion would meet for drinks first. see if you are compatable, then off to dinner.There is nothing like having dinner with two peopole you do not know and nothing in common for a few hours.Enjoy yourself and chances are really great the other couple will like being with you. A good rule of thumb be as comfortable as you wish them to be.Don't be afraid to talk about anything and everything,sometimes people are so nervous that very little is said. The chances of meeting two really great people..... the chances are tremendous, chances are great they are cool,fun people. chances of hooking up are way slimmer don't worry about it.This takes time lots of energy and effort.In time you will know who what when how why where
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (2070 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Bathe, shave, brush your teeth, and wear clean COMFORTABLE clothes. Leave your expectations, assumptions, and/or anxiety about "after dinner" at home, and relax and be your normal charming selves. And above all else, have FUN!
Hattiesburg MS			Username hidden (527 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have been checking out this site for about 2 weeks. We save our chats so that the other can see what was said. That way we can get to know the other couple without being in the chat. I never put any pressure on my wife but she is always looking at the site or who I chatted with. Well just last night she asked me "If I would like to meet another couple". Without getting too excited I said that it was entirely up to her. So, we may be meeting someone for dinner soon. I do not know just when it will happen but it may be within a week or two. I am sure it will only be dinner, but you never know. What are the chances of finding a couple on the first meet where everyone there is in tune with each other and it goes farther then just dinner? Does anyone have any ideas, tips and suggestions for our first meeting? Charlie
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