Contacting new people: Swingers Discussion 34118

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TOPIC: Contacting new people

Created by: martiancpl Original Starting post for this thread:
We are new to the life style and we are not sure what to say to someone that we find interesting. We don't want to come off as to pushy, sleazy, or just plain weird. When someone contacts you with first e-mail what peeks your interest and what totally turns you off. We have sent out e-mails and not sure if we are offending people with what we say or maybe we are just boring. Any suggestions?

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User Details are only visible to members.	Or did they just play the submissive partner for the last four years. (That's a joke, I said, son, that's a joke!)
Shadyside PA			Username hidden (319 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Democrats might as well screw a republican, They screwed the rest of the country for years..........lol Just kidding, I am actually a democrat leaning Independent
Franklin VA			Username hidden (36 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think that's just a tall tale.
Shadyside PA			Username hidden (319 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I heard once about a mouse that screwed an elephant. It seems that somebody put him up to it!
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	One of my fantasies has always been to screw an elephant. (Wait, is there another forum I should post that in?)
Shadyside PA			Username hidden (319 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Actually lots of people like to screw Republicans, just for variety.
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (1153 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My favorite was the guy who contacted us, very nicely, full sentences, capitalization and everything. We went along for a few emails, then started IMing. I then find out that he wants a couple who had never swung before, and demanded to know if we were Democratic or Republican. It turned out he wouldn't be comfortable screwing a conservative!
Shadyside PA			Username hidden (319 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm always awkward in that first email. Especially if I really like what I see/read about a couple in their profile. I've decided just to be honest- I'll say something like I really think you two are attractive & have this and this in common. Still, those first conversations are kind of awkward for us. Maybe cause we're still newbies I guess :)
Wilmington DE			Username hidden (1094 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We had a couple recently contact us, without including any picutures of them in the message, and informing us that if we were interested in them we should send our pictures to them. We checked their profile (assuming their pictures would be there) and all they had were pictures of the woman, but never showing her face. Her body looked very attractive, but without seeing her face, and without seeing the guy AT ALL, how could we possibly decide if we were intested? We should not have even bothered to reply, but we did it (first mistake). We simply stated that we needed to see pictures of both of them, including faces, so we could decide if we were interested (technically, we shouldn't have had to say that because we already indicate in our profile that we won't reply to messages without pictures). They replied saying we were very rigid in our demands, and to forget everything. We felt that their reply was totally out of line, so we figured they probably were inexperienced in this. We proceeded to patiently and nicely explain to them how things are normally done (second mistake). Let's just say that they were not appreciative in the least, and definitely did not acknowledge to be doing anything improperly. Our explanation was somewhat elaborate, and they basically made fun of it (no need for "dissertations"). We learned our lesson: just hit the delete button next time and move on!
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (1153 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sometimes! LOL
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

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TOPIC: Contacting new people