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| We have not had very many experiences yet. One was pretty good but the other not at all. He could not get it up AT ALL. He finally jacked off. He did not acknowledge it or anything. And now he has asked about a cert! Did he not notice we did not have anything beyond some weak kissing?????? Why would he ask? Are we expected to lie? We told him no, but WTF? |
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We write all of our certs in a sexually vague manner even if we have played. It's just a matter of discretion for us, as we simply don't want everyone to know who we've banged. If we like the people, enjoyed their company, and had an overall good experience with them, then we'll write a cert. We're often a SMs first cert, which we'll write based on a couple platonic meetings. It seems like once they get that first cert, they get pretty busy! LOL!
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Certs are an important part of the LS for single guys. But, remember anyone can refuse a cert if they feel it's not an advantage for them. I have refused certs from couples that I thought were not sincere. One time meets do not get a cert from me and I refuse them from others until we know eachother better. And, don't forget anyone who certs someone can also take it back adn delete it even after they give it.
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We don't often meet people through SLS so certs giving or receiving are not something we just do, we must have genuinely enjoyed meeting the person/people whether it was just a meet or if it was for play. We do play with single guys and if we meet one off here will will cert him if he is what he says he is. If it was a less then great meeting there will not be a cert given again whether play happens or not.
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That makes sense :0). Yeah, we have had horrific meet ups and then they were like can you certify us? I'm like DO YOU REALLY WANT ME TO DO THAT LOL.
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Hi and thanks for the feedback. I will say that there were other issues besides performance, because I do not think I would not use performance as the only measure. I am just surprised he asked for a cert.
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Would you have given him a cert if he was a great guy, you had a great time with him and he happened to have erection issues *that happen more with married men than single men I have found btw*....solely on the fact that his dick didnt work?
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2Plus, it depends really on the overall experience. Most of the certs on our profile...we have not had sex with. I don't know, pretty much its your call on that one. If you had a great time overall that night its one thing. Basing solely on sexual performance is another...but its totally up to each couple.
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He might be just looking for someone to help his credibility.
Some folks find it a form of competition in a silly popularity contest, just like friend requests. Do what you want to do. If he can't accept it, tough! To him it means more than it does to you. IMO |
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We have not had very many experiences yet. One was pretty good but the other not at all. He could not get it up AT ALL. He finally jacked off. He did not acknowledge it or anything. And now he has asked about a cert! Did he not notice we did not have anything beyond some weak kissing?????? Why would he ask? Are we expected to lie? We told him no, but WTF?
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