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TOPIC: Being honest regarding age and location on websites (long post)
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This venture into online swinging communities has been rather challenging for me (us). As my husband travels All-The-Time I took it upon myself to create our profile. He knows about it and is excited. To protect our privacy I added a few yrs to my age and reduce my husband’s age by a few years. I “lied” when I wrote where we live....listening to a few podcast about the lifestyle, I now know I have already committed two fundamental wrongs, not being honest about age and location... I have two very noticeable tattoos. We moved to the South from a very liberal area. When my husband accepted his current position w/his job, one of the first things he changed was the ordinance forbidding dancing and drinking (not even kidding!) His wife (me) having tattoos was a topic of conversation. We’re making progress with his company. The corruption conservative businesses typically are known for, my husband has zero tolerance. Hey drinks are on us! No praying before eating in restaurants! Social media, supporting the LGTBQ+ community, raising the hourly wage of employees, he is making an impact. However, if the company we are trying so hard to change and yet support, figured out I/we were a member(s) of swinger communities, game over. Fired. Shamed out of the state. On a different online community, I FaceTimed-sexted (I was wearing sunglasses) with someone. I asked him before we started if he’d “validate” me. He didn’t validate me. Now, I’m not even sure that he has a hotwife. I told him we don’t live GA, but in the state where he lives, I even gave him the county we live in. I feel so stupid, so used and embarrassed. The random guy who didn’t validate me just texted me again today (yes I used my real phone number, so easily looked up). My husband comes home tonight. Last week I envisioned having a hotwife date ready for my husband as a surprise. Now I have to tell him I video sexted a random guy that has my cell phone number, and no, there will not be any wife swapping.
Swinging 101, does anyone have a link to a website or any other obvious safety rules?
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TOPIC: Being honest regarding age and location on websites (long post)
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