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TOPIC: At what point do you become too comfortable with a lover
Created by: sa_interracialcpl
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What actions would make you take yourself to task for your own behavior?

Basically, have you slipped up and surprised yourself?

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If you are doing his laundry or reminding him what he has to do that day; you might want to evaluate the comfort zones.

Oh wait, I do that for male friends without sex, damn it, I am in trouble.

The Wife in the Us

Denham Springs LA
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Not exactly sure I understand the question, but for me it would be noticing that the get togethers became a predictable set of moves. That would make me take notice.

In bed we all have our go-to moves-the ones we think make us great in bed. So it's reasonable that when we first connect with someone we try them first. However, your second, third, fourth time with a new person or couple you have to change it up a little to keep it fun; at least I would.

A lot of couples find themselves in this state too after a number of years. Nothing can open a man's eyes quicker than seeing his wife enjoy sex with another man in ways he's never done with her before. Put simply, in can inspire any husband to step up his game. Sure did for me- we do it now like we did when we first met and it's way hot ;-)

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What actions would make you take yourself to task for your own behavior?

Basically, have you slipped up and surprised yourself?

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