Are kids effecting your sex life, or have they in the past: Swingers Discussion 2104131011

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TOPIC: Are kids effecting your sex life, or have they in the past

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User Details are only visible to members.	YES.. we have 2 kids 8 year old and 1 year old..if the little one decides to sleep the big one will decide not to ..and the other way around. We don't really have anyone to help so its just us. Besides we both work and leave home at 7:30 to see each other at 7:00pm ahem..this lifestyle is tough..not sure how to handle the other lifestyle..but we are not there yet.
New York NY			Username hidden (265 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have two kids and it is tough to do all the things we want to do, but we manage. It is slow going but that's life and we enjoy it as much as we can.
Schertz TX			Username hidden (68 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It's not devious, it "the power of suggestion," lol.
Redford MI			Username hidden (303 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I recall having those times. We roughed our way through it though. Now our kids are getting older and we have a little more "us" time.
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1048 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	During our kids' younger years, when we were rarely able to get out, and were exhausted with my nightshift job and us trying to get our bakery up-n-running as well, our sex life diminished. Because of work taking up soooo much time, we used any time left over to be with the kiddos. Although we tried to keep somewhat of a sex-life, we both felt that any awake time was better spent with the children. Looking back, I'm glad we played it that way, and I wouldn't change it. There will be more and more time for extracurricular activities as they grow and become more independent, so worry not. We've learned how to plant the seed in their heads to ask my folks if they can spend the night. We don't tell them to ask, but earlier in the week, in conversation, we will randomly converse, in their presence, about how long it's been since they've stayed at Nonna's house. Or mention what a bummer it is that we don't have cable because there's a Halloween special on Saturday night. The kids don't realize they've been "brainwashed," and by the end of the week, they will, on their own, ask to spend the night at my parents' house.
Redford MI			Username hidden (303 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The kids years are for sure dominated by the kids' needs, but they fly by so fast you can't remember it. And then the empty-nester years begin, and oh does the sex - and swinging - get good! :-) Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	DnJ- I don't know how old your kiddos are but we call the years until our kids were preschoolers "the dark years." I missed sex and intimacy but the idea of one more person needing something from me at the end of a long day of our kids needing me in a very physical way was just too much for me. Looking back now, we were both pretty miserable and neither one of us felt that the other understood our feelings or needs. It was absolutely wonderful to make it through to the other side and we comment regularly on how thankful we are that those times are past. Good luck to you.
Cincinnati OH			Username hidden (3304 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	the only time our TV in the bedroom is on, is if I'm watching a dvd while folding wash on the bed. Its not even hooked to the dish. On occasion we will pop in a disc of homemade porn of me with a SM. No computers in the bedroom, just my phone in case of emergencys with the family. Neither of us are TV watchers really but we do get sucked in by the forums we are on. But I get cranky if I don't have sex often! So we decided just like we schedule other things we would schedule computer/tv off us on time. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13987 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We try very hard to tear ourselves away from anything electronic by 9 p.m. so that we can be together, awake usually, for that hour or so before falling asleep. Being empty nesters without childcare responsibilities makes this easy, but there was a time when we were not creating this reconnection opportunity for each other. It's a matter of determining what is most important in the moment. Sometimes there really is something on-line that needs to have attention paid to it, but usually there is nothing that can't be handled just as effectively the next day. Being with my husband both physically and mentally is top priority during the hour of "our" time.
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (6972 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yup, the computer! very bad. Worse the TV. My husband doesn't wind down until about 9:30 and usually starts getting sidetracked then, by the computer in his office. I'm usually on mine in our bedroom. I've often emailed him saying 'hon, are you at least watching porn?' he writes me back, 'Nope, watching fishing video's'. oh Lord. lol. we usually hear each other laughing since the rooms are close. I'm often tired or into something on tv if he comes to bed after 11. Been saying I'm going to remove our bedroom tv for about 20 years now. ....thinking I might not ever do it.
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