Anyone else get annoyed by this: Swingers Discussion 1767101031

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Anyone else get annoyed by this: Swingers Discussion 1767101031

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User Details are only visible to members.	The "brutal" truth is this is almost always about physical attraction so those who don't respond simply don't feel the attraction necessary to want to have sex. I am not directing this at you Doc, just making the point that while we all wax poetic about how we enjoy a sense of humor and intelligence and wit, the bottom line is we aren't looking to marry each other or even date each other, we (the collective "we") just want to have hot, steamy, over the top SEX and physical attraction is at the core of that. As to your point about the site having a preview pane that allows someone to read the email without it being marked as "read" should probably be addressed in the website forum and FWIW, I agree with you!
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hhhmmmm...... I was excited to see 30 replies since the one I put up last night. I thought to myself "that must be a ton of input on the theme". Funny how you can be so wrong sometimes. As far as replying to emails, the original issue was that you can only see if they've been read or not. If you see that a person has indeed read it and chose not to reply to you... big deal. Move on. You know they got it and weren't interested. It's the emails that show "unread" that are annoying. You don't know if they got there or not, if a person read them in the preview pane, if one person of a couple has read it but hasn't shared it with their spouse, if they're interested and were just too busy to be able to write a decent reply when they opened it up, if you should write them back to remind them you sent the email, if you'll be bothering them if you do.... The simple and polite thing to do is to just write back "not interested". For most people, that will be enough. We appreciate hearing an actual "no" if that is the case. It's two strokes on a keyboard, maybe three or four clicks with a mouse. I understand there are idiots that will even miss that hint and still hound you afterwards. I can't speak for those sorts, although we will usually send someone another email after they tell us "no" to thank them for doing so. If they really seem like they should have clicked and their profile showcases them to be the cerebral type, we might ask them to elaborate as to why they said no, not because we feel we're owed an explanation, but because we're genuinely interested in knowing just what it is that sent up a red flag and would like to address it. We're seriously asking for constructive criticism and appreciate brutal honesty. Most never write back to that.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (61 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Fun, how do you know I didn't already invite the Savs in private? " Nice save Nic lol. Sadly we won't be going . JK can relax and have a good time without having to worry about always trying to have the last word with me lol ;) Besides I'd hate to have Fun and Nic in the same room and have to chose between them, never mind compete for their attentions ...looks like a lots of fun hot people attending surely it would have been a blast. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	No worries.
Orlando FL			Username hidden (976 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Fun, how do you know I didn't already invite the Savs in private? No doubt about it, they would be a lovely additions. Then if we could get J&K to make the trip, I could get a part time gig as referee for their "grudge match". lol
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Fun....... I shall check it out, thanks Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	JK to IGNORE you would be rude and since you're such a stickler for politeness surely you'd NEVER ignore ME lol Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm not sure this "being nice" to you two is working out for me. Linkin Park's "one step closer" keeps playing in my head every time I read a post by either of you. Maybe we should go back to ignoring each other.
Orlando FL			Username hidden (976 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	D, as much as I'd like for y'all to come down, I learned a long time ago not to get involved in lobbying one half of a couple against the other. That didn't quite come out right, but you know what I mean. What surprises me is that Nic hasn't invited Savandwin. He's obviously slipping. (Mrs. Sav, since Nic has dropped the ball, go to the Fellatio Fest topic in the open threads, and see if y'all would like to take a road trip next month).
San Quentin CA			Username hidden (8604 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"And btw, it may have been in the games thread, I'm not sure where you commented about mrs Sav and I hating you.... Not true at all on my end. Really more of an apathetic loathing. " Seriously ? Hate requires emotional attachment , thought and energy ....... quite frankly I feel none of that for JK. The opposite of Love is not Hate it is utter and complete indifference. So there you go.....indifferent I am lol. Mrs Sav
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