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User Details are only visible to members.	So my wife and I are very new to this and have meet some really great people in the last month. We are really enjoying the conversations it has sparked between us and the time we are now spending together. Please allow me to explin the experiances we have had up to this point, then get to my question. Our first experiance was month or so ago and we met a really nice couple that hae been in the lifestyle for a number of years. They invited us over to kind of give us a "walk through" of what to expect and what to look out for. After arriving at thier place and introducing ourselves, they gave us the 2 cent tour of thier house. With in 5 minutes of us being there the man stated that he was getting on the hot tub and we all followed suit. We chatted and had a few laughs and we where commfortable with the situation. he was very intrested in my wife and she was enjoying the attention. After a little pay between him and my wife he suggested that we go to the bed room and continue. Up to this point, his wife didnt much look at me or my wifey. her husband told me to just start rubbing on her and lightly kissing her and that she would come around, that never happend. She literly laid there the hole time and didnt move hardly at all. Mean while he was having all the fun he could with my wife until they had both finished. At that point I just gave up and we went home. The odd thing is before and after the fun, she was very talkative and seemed to be having a good time. Durring the fun, she was a corpse. Our second encounter was last Friday night. We had meet this couple previously for a meet and greet over dinner and we all had a great time. They where both very talkative and we seemd to be more than comfortable with eachother. We invited them over for dinner and explained that ther ewouldnt be much in the way of sex as my wife was, shall we say being visited by mother nature. They didnt have an issue with that and thought some light play would be fine if anything. So, after dinner and a few drinks we sat in the front room to talk and whetever. In just a few minutes he had my wife rubbing him through his jeans and I was giving her a back rub and everything seems to be going fine. She had me in her mouth very breifly and wifey was talking good care of him. Well, after he popped, I continued to rub her back, legs, ass and her and wifey kissed and everything was good. After a few more minutes ot that, she sat straight up, said "I'm done". She went to the bathroom to get dressed. I asked her husband what was going on, all he said was "your just too nice". When she came out of the bathroom, they left. Keep in mind that she was pretty drunk. Please keep in mind that we are not a pushy couple. I feel that if she isnt enjoying it, is not comfortable or what have you there really is no point in it. So my questions are this, Is it normal for the women to just kind of play like they are having a good time so thier husbands can get off? Is it possible that the last couple just dont talk to eachother too much? Or did I just flat do something wrong? should I be less of a "nice guy" (not going to happen but...)? We are just looking for advice, what to look for to avoid these kind of people etc. Sorry it was so long and thnks for reading.
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