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Wow. I guess that while she was the gorgeous extrovert spending 20 years of her life raising kids and cleaning the house you had no problems with her. Now that she's got some years on her (and maybe a few pounds) you're no longer satisfied because she doesn't feel like having wild sex all the time. Taking care of your needs behind her back is not the answer. You need to take down your profile until she either gives you a hall pass or divorces you.

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As A married cheating guy.... I almost wish she would find out. We have talked a lot about swinging, together and alone. She has no interest, says I'm all she needs, says she has no fantasies. Now what's a guy to do? How do you respond to that? When she is not all you need? When you do have fantasies? When you don't want to hurt her or lose her, but you have needs too... I was a virgin when we married, she was not. She experimented before we met, I did not. She had bi relations, I did not. The list goes on...I was shy and almost an introvert, when I was younger and she was this gorgeous extrovert, that happened to take a liking to me....

After 31 years of marriage the roles have reversed. The kids are raised, moved out. I don't put in as many hours at work anymore, ( I don't need too)She has joined the woman's club. plays cards every Tuesday, joined a book club,etc... I want to expand our sexual play and try new things... I have become Bi Curious,which after doing a lot (and I mean a lot ) of research on the subject, in psychiatric web sites, is very common at my age. (although most men won't admit to it) The idea of mmf and ffm is very intriguing to me, so is anal and DP... These are all things she has done before marriage, and I did not.

So what's a guy to do? Who has worked his ass off the last 30+ years, trying to provide, the best he could, for his family, doesn't want to loose his wife,( who is his best friend and love of his life)that wants to try other things that she has no interest in...other than cheat??????

If you have an answer for that, "O wise one", please pass it on......

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