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TOPIC: 10 Swinger Party Rules (couples, Singles, e.t.c .)
Created by: haitianlover1
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1. For couples - If one of you wants to go, then you both need to go. This also means the two of you leave together.

2. When arriving at a swinger party, you have to be punctual. Being late is a turn-off and can cause those that are already in the act to feel uncomfortable. If you plan on being late, it may be helpful to notify your host or hostess.

3. Be courteous to others. Behave towards them the way you want others to behave towards you.

4. Always RSVP, which will allow your host to prepare and organize the event properly. This can be extremely frustrating to a host or hostess...Your assistance will truly save them a lot of wasted time, money, and energy. If you don't plan on coming, make sure you let them know however possible.

5. Bring a gift for the host. This is a great gesture and it really helps to create rapport, comfort, and friendship. This is a big plus, because you could never have enough connections in the world of swinging, for variety in partners is of great importance.

6. The clothes you wear should be practical and feel comfortable on you.Taking a robe or a negligee with you may also be a great idea. You also want to take just enough money with you and the valuables at home. Losing your personal items at an event can make it embarrassing for both you and the host. Not only that, it makes those that were near you or your lost item feel uncomfortable .

7. Hygiene is very important. Take a nice shower prior to, and make sure you clean your genitals, arm pits, mouth e.t.c. Also keep in mind what you eat may come out from your pores or can be smelled from your breath when speaking. It's highly recommended that you bring gum, for you may also need it if food is provided at the event.

8. Have fun and don't feel pressured to do anything you're not comfortable with. It's one thing to be open minded but it's another to be pushed into doing things you don't want.

9. Be friendly, smile, engage in conversations with others. You want to be approachable and not stand off-ish. If you are a couple at an event and one of you is too serious, unhappy, or unapproachable, then this will most likely affect your counterpart, and that energy will be felt by all. So don't go with the intention of judging or picking at everything. Go to have fun, be positive, smile and others will totally react to you. You will appear more attractive in their eyes and you'll have a better chance of a happy ending.

10. Prior to leaving make sure you get the names and numbers of encounters made. Don't feel to proud or timid to ask. You need to keep in mind that each person or couple you need may open the door for you to meet 1, 10, 100 or more play mates in the future.

If you can think of anything thing else, you can go ahead and make comment/s to this thread. Hope this was Helful. (By: HaitianLover1)

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Great list. All true.

At the last party we were at, many of the people there violated at least 2 or more of the "rules". LOL

Lahaina HI
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Thats a great list! I think you covered everything! :)

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1. For couples - If one of you wants to go, then you both need to go. This also means the two of you leave together.

2. When arriving at a swinger party, you have to be punctual. Being late is a turn-off and can cause those that are already in the act to feel uncomfortable. If you plan on being late, it may be helpful to notify your host or hostess.

3. Be courteous to others. Behave towards them the way you want others to behave towards you.

4. Always RSVP, which will allow your host to prepare and organize the event properly. This can be extremely frustrating to a host or hostess...Your assistance will truly save them a lot of wasted time, money, and energy. If you don't plan on coming, make sure you let them know however possible.

5. Bring a gift for the host. This is a great gesture and it really helps to create rapport, comfort, and friendship. This is a big plus, because you could never have enough connections in the world of swinging, for variety in partners is of great importance.

6. The clothes you wear should be practical and feel comfortable on you.Taking a robe or a negligee with you may also be a great idea. You also want to take just enough money with you and the valuables at home. Losing your personal items at an event can make it embarrassing for both you and the host. Not only that, it makes those that were near you or your lost item feel uncomfortable .

7. Hygiene is very important. Take a nice shower prior to, and make sure you clean your genitals, arm pits, mouth e.t.c. Also keep in mind what you eat may come out from your pores or can be smelled from your breath when speaking. It's highly recommended that you bring gum, for you may also need it if food is provided at the event.

8. Have fun and don't feel pressured to do anything you're not comfortable with. It's one thing to be open minded but it's another to be pushed into doing things you don't want.

9. Be friendly, smile, engage in conversations with others. You want to be approachable and not stand off-ish. If you are a couple at an event and one of you is too serious, unhappy, or unapproachable, then this will most likely affect your counterpart, and that energy will be felt by all. So don't go with the intention of judging or picking at everything. Go to have fun, be positive, smile and others will totally react to you. You will appear more attractive in their eyes and you'll have a better chance of a happy ending.

10. Prior to leaving make sure you get the names and numbers of encounters made. Don't feel to proud or timid to ask. You need to keep in mind that each person or couple you need may open the door for you to meet 1, 10, 100 or more play mates in the future.

If you can think of anything thing else, you can go ahead and make comment/s to this thread. Hope this was Helful. (By: HaitianLover1)

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