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If its MY secret, like a gift I got you or a surprise I'm trying to plan, it eats at me and I just want to blurt it out! (That's the reason I usually shop last minute for holidays!). But someone else's secret goes to the grave. :)
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I was hoping someone would turn it around a bit and include the male side of the question. If we're ok with a man not having an orgasm (and, personally, I am ok with that b/c there are a myriad of reasons why not), then we should also be okay with a woman who does not have an orgasm while swinging. As long as everyone is having fun, and doesn't make some sort of goal out of "well, she just hasn't been with ME," then I'd say no one "should" have a problem with that. I'm of the mindset that PG relayed.
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I have, multiple times.
Our very first intentional MFM encounter was with a mmmmm hot man who told us both up front that he prolly wouldn't orgasm but that it didn't matter because he was allabout the playing, not the ending. :) He was the third in our relationship for a few months and he never orgasmed with me, no matter whether we were having a threesome or I saw him alone. It was quite disconcerting at the start because I just didn't believe he wouldn't. Then, of course my ego got tied up in it, lol. But then I finally let go of all that and just took each moment for what it was. And it was HAWT! Same TTT. |
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I guess it'd depend on the relationship we are having up to that point. I like to know my lover has enjoyed themselves fully, and a climax is a great indicator. However, I would think it's similar to the times it's difficult for me to get "all the way," I still enjoy myself and love the feelings evoked, the closeness with my partner, and still have had pleasure. It's not always about the "end game" orgasm. I don't believe in faking, though, and would be more offended if someone pretended to climax.
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Millington TN |
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Trooper has, a friend of mine that is VERY hard to make orgasm, so I don't think she ever has with him. She still loves sex and has a great time playing with him, and other guys even if she can't quite get there. It is a bit odd for me though because then I worry about the fact that I orgasm easily and wonder if it is making her feel bad when she watches us.
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I suppose as long as someone was truly enjoyigng themselves and they accepted that's the way they are, themselves, far be it from me to have a problem with it. Have to admit: I've never encountered that issue before.
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If we were mutually attracted and they had the courtesy to tell me that up front and wanted to play I think we could find some common ground to make a memorable encounter. It truly is about the journey and not always the destination ;)
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Depends on the venue. If she's flashing them in a public park with families around, that's skanky. If she's flashing them around other adults, that's fun!
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Alpharetta GA |
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I've got no problem at all with women flashing their bewbies.
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Hunt Valley MD |
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Nudity + confidence + I'm cool with a little blatant attention whoring = Definitely hot.
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Toledo OH |
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