We use KiK messenger app all the time for the LS to group chat, it keeps everyone up to speed what's being communicated.

It's a really speedy comm app, as fast as or faster than a text.

I just dealt with a free member couple that basically went down my list of no-no's. First: they both in their 20s. Then: they hit me with a "what cha doing tonight"... then they sent me their kik address {wtf is kik?!?} When i caked them out on not reading my profile, they apologized~and reiterated their kik address. WTF

There was a "couple" (I strongly suspected they were attached to others) who used to post hot dates at times, typically "we can play next Thursday from 11:30 to 1:00". Uh yeah sure.

I'd only be suspicious if someone can never ever meet, greet and play except in daytime.........unless they work a night shift somewhere.

When I was a SF I had only one evening a week {usually Fri} that was designated "playtime." I would often meet /greet for a lunch/coffee during the day. Meeting during a lunch break ensured that: (i) since I only had 1 1/2 hour, I didn't have to figure out a way to exit quickly; and (ii) my only "play night" wouldn't be wasted because we'd have already met and established the existence of some chemistry.

Mrs. U

It baffles the mind at how very naive I was, and to a certain extent still am. Nynj, when I first read about meeting for lunch but not dinner at a certain location, my first thought was, perhaps more of his vanilla friends frequent said location during the evening. The I remembered what thread I'm in and all the content within. By taking a second more to think about it, it screams married guy cheating on his wife. I think I try to hard to look for the best in people that I then make excuses for suspicious behavior. Alas, the education of reality continues.

....or the SMs who exchange a few messages, progress towards setting up an initial meet/greet and: gee they can't meet on an evening but hey, he can meet for lunch at the same location (weekday).

um, gee...anyone else smell something fishy?

LOL! Don't ya love it when they cert themselves through another profile they've set up. Not too hard to figure out.

Couple: how are you guys? XxxxxxxXxxx at Comcast

Allen's REPLY: Hi! It's a small world, a SM that we nicely turned away a couple days ago just happens to be affiliated with you thru a certification. What's even more ironic is that yours and his join dates are a single day apart, then a cert on the following day. Of course you already know this. WE could go on to point out the similarities in ages/weights/heights too and maybe ask if you share Harleys since you both ride them; we see you are sharing the same words "open-minded as they come" in such a short one liner profile, yet we instead, choose to wish you luck.

(The other SM guy's email to us : Love to meet)

"She has amazing curves, nice profile. Does she have any interest in a younger fit guy?" This from a clown posing on an obviously fake couples profile who didn't bother to read past our pics. Told him No, she likes her older fit guy just fine.

Perved upon by the lovely rabbit and called hot by equally lovely Mrs. U in one day. Methinks I begin to blush and somehow injured my leg as I'm walking a a kind of limp. Wait there is no pain in my leg. I think I'm strutting and that is not blushing, my head has grown 5 times its original size. Can't get through the door to go to the store with this inflated ego.