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@ncalcouple. You are right a bout the working out and the older you get the more important it is

Charlie

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My wife works out and stays fit because she loves the attention and second for health reasons.

We have a completely open marriage so she can do what she likes with the attention. She loves being shown off when she is dressed in a sexy dress at the Opera..yes she loves the dance..she goes with one of her men who is " puffed up like a peacock" with her on her arm. And i dont have to suffer through the opera..lol

i work out with weights because i love to free dive in the ocean and hunt fish and that takes physical strength and endurance. And women love my body when i have muscle..when i stopped lifting for a while the women just treated me like any other man.

At swing parties and resorts like Hedo everyone likes our bodies...its nice having women smiling at my naked me, but she tries to keep those women smiling at me not her...she loves the men so much that we have a day when she is the single woman...what fun she has....

The day she cant get looks at the beach in her string bikini is the day she hit 120 years of age.

We also eat right ..high vege and fruit low fat diet..nothing fried all meats are BBQed or broiled with all the fat trimmed off. Low fat frozen yogurt and so on..makes it easy to keep the weight off and eat the amounts of food we want.

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@Sexus you are right obout the bbws calling little girls sticks. If they would be honest most of them dream of being a perfect siz. 4 or 5

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Being overweight as said in here does suck. There are though chicks with the same problem . I've been married for forty years to a little muscular girl so I am ruins for life in being with anyone who isn't.

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SexusnTexas: never say only! 18 pounds is huge and as stated it's part of a journey. Always reminds me when I drag my friends out running a 5K or MudRun and they apologize for being so slow. I remind them that they are out there putting one foot in front of the other while most others are asleep in bed and not doing anything. Celebrate each success and learn from each failure. Overall you're headed in positive direction so my hats off to you and everyone else trying. I return you to your regular SLS programming!


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Anyone can email me w questions and I'll do my best to answer. You have the right idea, its all about the journey. Keep going the right direction and focus on your goal. No one has the straight up willpower to loose a lot of weight., thats a terrible myth. You have to want it every day and find another reward system besides food. Being overweight takes so much from you and it is hard to appreciate wo living it.


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Anyone can email me w questions and I'll do my best to answer. You have the right idea, its all about the journey. Keep going the right direction and focus on your goal. No one has the straight up willpower to loose a lot of weight., thats a terrible myth. You have to want it every day and find another reward system besides food. Being overweight takes so much from you and it is hard to appreciate wo living it.


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I imagine swinging itself isn't too politically correct, so no matter.

TooMuch, you can help me anytime. I totally trust and respect the ones who have been there and know what it's like. I've only lost about 18 pounds since September, BUT I ALREADY notice less stress on my knees, feet, ability to do more, etc. A1C is better and I could drop a med. So yes, despite the aesthetics of losing weight, the better feeling is worth it.

So yes, I will come in here from time to time when I feel like giving up or that it doesn't matter, or just when I hit a slow spot, etc, and read some of your success stories and how much better you feel, and keep working at it.

It's NOT so that I can attract more people sexually. I already have the best sex with my husband. And we are doing this together. We have no problems in the area of swinging, and attract a wide variety (no pun intended) of others. The ones who are so defensive about it all are not attractive, no matter how they look at either end of the spectrum, complaining and excuses and whining are never attractive.

Either lose or don't. Either take care of yourself or don't. I have my stupid moments of rebellion where I eat wrong and "just don't care" (I actually do care, all the time, I'm just fooling myself when I have that attitude) but I now have many more days of making better choices. For me, it's a slow go, but it's still progressing, I'm still doing more and eating less, and kick it up a few notches along the way.

Right now, I'm discouraged. So reading these posts are helpful. It means I can keep trying. (I'm discouraged b/c I fell and hurt my arm a couple months ago and can't do what I was doing, but going to PT and taking care of the injury). For me, it's also changing a whole lifetime of bad (unhealthy) choices for myself.

So, anytime I read where people are bitching about "fit" people not wanting to have sex with fat people, it's just something I find unattractive. There are attractive people of all shapes and sizes, and it's not a "war" between the two. My point is that if you don't like being made fun of because you are heavy, then don't retaliate by making fun of people who are thin. Is petty and unappealing. And it's usually b/c you don't like yourself, no matter how much you tell yourself otherwise.

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Is this a complaint about someone not using a politically correct sentence in describing his/her preference or is this a broader complaint about fit couples refusing to hook up with everyone else who isn't fit?

I'm confused.

For example: Politically correct: we will only have sex with people we consider attractive Gray area: we will only have sex with people who are fit like us Not politically correct: we will not have sex with fat people

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It sucks being fat. I got hurt (hip and shoulder) and put on 100lbs that I had to lose so I've been there. Anyone overweight saying they are okay with it is just deluding themselves or talking smack. I will never be that way again and I don't even want to see it in a sexual context.

When I see someone that is fat I honestly feel sorry for them and I have helped several people (for free) get on track and lose weight. I've also tried to help people and watched them fail. I will answer questions when I can as weight loss is talked about so much and commercialized it is HARD to sort truth from BS.

If you think I don't have an idea what fat is like read this: It sucks to have to plan to bend over and pick something up. It sucks that people look at you weird in stores. It sucks that your pants fall down. It sucks when your feet hurt all the damn time. It sucks when you can't walk up a flight of stairs without sweating through your clothes. It sucks that NOTHING fits right. It sucks when your ass won't fit in a roller coaster seat.

Stuff you can look forward too as a fatty: (notice i'm not being politically correct sorry, nothing you haven't told yourself) Diabetes, plantar facitis (sp), heart disease, liver disease, prostate problems (guys), general ill health and a plethora of other conditions.

You guys that come in here and say how okay you are being fat keep in mind at least one guy here knows the truth. You have just given up.


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