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Vabeachcouple we totally agree with you. We just looked at who was going to an upcoming party where 74 couples had signed up. We saw 5 profiles where the lady could be considered HWP. What gives? You are in a lifestyle where how you look is important. How can you be content when you are 5-6 tall and are packing 200 pounds?

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I see one HWP woman with an overweight husband for every three HWP men with an overweight wife.

In my experience, the women are the ones more likely to be overweight.

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You are asking the guys to hit the gym so you can find them attractive, okay I am sure they would love to be in better shape themselves. I have to ask you do these men lie to you and say they are 50# lighter maybe using pictures 10 years old? Then yes spin them at the door! Perhaps the easy solution to the problem is to say to the hubby. No. I am not interested in them, the dude could be a body double for fat bastard. No ill feelings just saying.

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I agree with ChainMale, I put on a lot of weight from the time I was around 34-35. I was always lean and muscular but really let myself go for a couple of years and porked up to 275 pounds. Now, to my credit, I am 6"4, but that's still going on 300. I would not have even considered signing up here in 2009 I was starting to look so bad. But then I got serious New Years 2010 and now I'm around 230 and look a fuck of a lot better. I'm now actually close to where I ought to be and I doubt I'd be getting nearly as much play as I do if I was still 275, no doubt about that. Like ChainMale says, the website definitely motivates me to get in better shape, I'm getting close to where I was in my 20s.

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I think the "overweight" applies to both sexes. I see many attractive men who are HWP with women who aren't . SLS is no different than walking the streets....todays "average " is OVERWEIGHT. Everyone has a preference and no one should take one for the team. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder , some men like "model thin" others more curves, some like plump. Some women prefer 6 pack abs other a whole 6 pack................in our experience there is plenty of selections no matter your preferences. Agreeably there are more couples we are not attracted to than ones we are but thats ok.......we're not for everyone either.

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"But I do get tired of girls saying I may be to old and then they see me or my pic and change their minds really fast."

If they think you're too old, then they are too young (i.e. probably immature/inexperienced).

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haha. Makes my life easier being in shape. Used to really be into bodybuilding. Now I just stay jacked and lean I like looking great naked. Now when my girl and I look for women, she knows she is bringing a hot one to the table. I'm not being an ego maniac. But I do get tired of girls saying I may be to old and then they see me or my pic and change their minds really fast.

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If I wasn't in the lifestyle I really seriously doubt Id be in the kind of shape Im in, the LS is a great motivator ;-)

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"Big DIDDO to the original topic post."

At first glance I thought you typed "Big DILDO". hahahahahaha!

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Big DIDDO to the original topic post.

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