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Hey I agree and totally relate!! I have "taken one for the team" way too often! I am NOT turned on by large "dicky-dos" (when your belly is bigger than your dick)! Both parties should be fit and look good. If the wife/partner has to help, then so be it. When I met my partner, I did a remake on him! New glasses (he can't wear contacts), new - younger clothes, he lost weight, etc. Fat men turn me off! Why do men think it's okay to be fat with a hot wife/partner?? And WHY do these hot partners put up with it?! Life is too short! I love my man, but I tell him constantly, "If I gotta look good, so do you!".

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I would love for him to get some of the weight off. He would feel better about himself, have more energy and more stamina. But I can't do that for him, and I don't love him any less because he doesn't.

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I wanted to touch on that, and of course, got side-tracked.

It is not my responsibility to make sure that my partner looks good. It's his, no ifs or buts about it. He works out for himself, he changes his clothes for him, he shaves and showers because he wants to be clean, he dresses nicely for himself. Same with me.

If the person doesn't want to take care of himself, there is no amount of help from others that will change that. It's just that simple.

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"Now, I love him to pieces."

And all of his pieces too, I'm sure. :D I had hoped my generalization would cause some couples to think about how they could spur their spouses onto shaping up. Especially if it affecting play. But if your man has it good, then why change it?

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"Wives play a part in how the husbands look as well. I hope wives in the LS take a step back and assess their husbands in a way others will - and vice versa. Your spouse looks great to you, make sure your spouse looks great to others as well."

Not always so. I cook healthy meals. When we go out, I order healthy... I've gotten to where I can't even eat pizza, it'll make me ill. But that doesn't keep my husband from going to McDonalds for lunch... or stopping to get a milkshake on the way home from work after a crappy day at the office. Now, I love him to pieces. He is the rock that keeps everything from falling apart. I don't care if no one else can see what I do. He has a girlfriend who also knows how special he is, she's a good friend of mine too, so it works.

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I lost almost a hundred pounds by taking up fly fishing.

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Really? Did you look at the paintings? There are some hips and guts on those babes. But I am sure some impostor with the same name painted those.

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This is one of those threads that really has legs. Still not sure of the "why" part of the OP question. There does seem to be an obesity issue among LS men, perhaps an intervention is in order. Forget the attractiveness issue, live and love people, get healthy and stay around awhile.

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Yes, they painted slender women!

But I see that you're here to force feed us your non sense, so I'll just let you carry on with others who are willing to listen to your crap.

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Degas and Picasso, even Orpen painted women to be slender? By today's standards? You are aware google has images, right?

Swing and a miss.

Nice try though.

And I am not saying that because *A* specific artist depicts them that way, it is evidence. I am saying that because *many* have.

How about the exaggerated birth canal being a sign of strength and the ability to produce healthy offspring, therefore increasing the chance a male will choose the woman as a mate? There's pretty solid science behind that one too if you care to try and refute it.

Look, you guys have your preference, but you cannot rewrite history when it suits you. You are conveniently ignoring how overweight men can be depicted as attractive, where I have given several examples of how women are seen that way.

For the sake of argument, lets even say the depiction of women is a tossup. (It isn't.)

Men still come out on the short end of the stick. Another pun for you.

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