What up with all the overweight men: Swingers Discussion 16129410132

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TOPIC: What up with all the overweight men

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User Details are only visible to members.	Sail... We know what you mean. From our experience finding a female to easy but a couple with an in shape hot men is the unicorn for us. Most as you say are heavy .. WTF
Howell MI			Username hidden (1615 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	ezgoin, let me be the the first to welcome to the forums. Congratulations on your weight lose.
Freeland MI			Username hidden (230 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've not been on SLS all that long and we've noticed two things. One, almost no guys post photos. Their is always a sexy or multiple sexy photos of the female. Two, when you risk it and make contact with the couple and either they open their full photos or send you a photo of the male and OMG no offense but whats up with the grossly overweight or 20 year age difference male partners. No wonder these couples don't advertise the men. Its like a bait and switch they show a hot girl and then they guys are just not doable. We take pride in our appearance and were not models by a long shot but we try to be a desirable and open couple. When we joined this site we were figuring there would be way more mutually compatible couples. But finding guys is the hardest part. Some swingers say the a sexy single bi girl is the unicorn of the swinging lifestyle. We say a EQUALLY attractive couple with photos of BOTH in the profile is rarer. The reason this is kinda important, is because while we initially become attracted to the profile with a hot female only photos, only to be disappointed with the overweight unattractive male. Sorry but neither one of us take one for the team so we are looking for that elusive mutually attractive fit couple. Sorry for the rant
North Bergen NJ			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It is really amazing how just losing 10lbs can make you feel so much better. For those of you that are struggling with trying to lose weight, I would suggest buddying up with someone who will push you, give you shit when you dont want to get into the the gym and generally just be a pain in the ass.
Lebanon PA			Username hidden (69 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A comment was made about a female 6 pack.... not attractive. Women should not be cut. They should be curvacious and soft. Flat stomachs are ok, but everything should be smooth, rounded, and flowing. Plus a little extra meat just enhances the hips, the rear, and the chest. ;) The opposite is true for guys, it would seem. (and it's not really all that hard to believe, but that would get long-winded and o/t lol) I'm trying to develop new dietary habits and working more on exercise. Not easy at all. Made worse by the fact that I've always had a "pot belly", even as a kid - and I was always active, and never had a sweet tooth (candy and snacks just never did anything for me). I have essentially cut out soda, and cut down on total intake, so that's a big step. The real trick now, I think, is not to get impatient. It didn't get put on over-night, and it won't come off over-night either.
Aston PA			Username hidden (366 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	For those of you guys who don't even make an effort to be fit, remember this: Good sex, like any sport, requires a significant amount of physical exertion and a healthy heart to do it well. And a healthy heart & circulatory system is the primary engine that drives your libido, stamina, & your ability to maintain an erection. When I see a guy who's overweight, I already know he's going be a disappointing performer in bed for my wife. How do I know? Because it's obvious he won't have the heart health and stamina to keep it hard and keep it going long enough before he's tired and winded. That just leaves my wife frustrated and unsatisfied and that's no fun for either of us. So when we see the guy's belly, we just decline.
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User Details are only visible to members.	@ Sunburned- Thank you for bringing this up. My wife & I see the exact same thing all the time. So many times we have had an initial interest in a couple with lots of pics of the attractive wife but where the guy's pic doesn't appear in the public pics at all. Then we usually lose interest when we insist on seeing the guy only to find he's toting a significant beer belly. It's actually become difficult to find couples where the guy is at least HWP.
Charleston SC			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well now, since you're speaking for me and dissecting my "intentions" with my words, I'll just leave it at that. ;) No argument here..
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6223 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I was replying to MenHer.. My bad..
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (6223 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Attack? Please define.. OP, IMHO is an attack!! Where did I attack, was it my delivery of OUR facts? I'll keep quite...Promise
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