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TOPIC: Ladies_Weight
Created by: ilrivervalley
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What is up with so many of the ladies in the lifestyle being so heavy? We recently looked at a nearby party and there were fifty five couples attending. After looking at all of the profiles we found there were only five ladies with a weight of less than 170 pounds attending. I cannot understand why anyone in our lifestyle can present themselves in this manner.

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First, Welcome to the fora Elegant!!

Its coming up on our first year in the lifestyle and I have some personal observations that are pretty simple to sum up. 1. I have found that I am drawn to "healthy heavy" rather than "sickly skinny" and 2. Everything in-between is fair game :)

Tink and I are in full agreement that PASSION is more important than mere looks.

Next up for discussion: How long is a piece of string?

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One of the things I love about the lifestyle is that there is choice. I enjoy the variety that I see at the parties I tend to go to. I love how bodies can be so different, some I find attractive and some I don't but most of that has to do with who they belong to....the actual person....which in my experience is a viewpoint not very common in the lifestyle. There are so many groups that emphasize participation for people who fit the American standard of beauty/fitness that one could opt to only go to those parties if they wanted to. The parties that are inclusive rather than exclusive and who celebrate sexuality no matter what the package appeal to me much more than holding women or men to a media supported standard that maybe 20% of the population can or have attained. Blessings.

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LMAO... some funny shit here.

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A friend told me there is a funny question floating around asking "If dudes (not the word he used) are only fucking fine bitches, how come so many ugly bitches are coming up pregnant." I think that can be applied to weight as well.

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WannaTry, you're trying to extend a trend on that topic from a bodybuilding forum to the general population? You might as well poll Miss America contestants on body issues for men, nascar drivers on speed limits, or Chef Ramsey on fast food. I don't think that's very meaningful.

I've said as much in the BBW forum - if men really rejected women who didn't look like Kate Upton, almost all women would be single.

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@Cutie: Dr. Ruth taught us that the brain is the most important sex organ. I am not quite sure how I feel about your perception of a unicorn. It actually has nothing to do with body type as much as state of mind at least that's what I think.

@Wanna: Most male bodybuilders have egos bigger than their dicks...LOL...I was in that LS for many years and have friends who were in great (contest) shape and had overweight women. In fact, they preferred the softer look. Now, most competitive couples are both in great shape to support one another. When I dated females in the BB world, I only dated contest shape women and competitive male or really in shape men. It's just the people you tend to be around. I have to say, I still critique people in my mind but my taste has relaxed significantly. Although I have to say, my Plus One almost has the physique of a bodybuilder and another gentleman I see is leaner than I normally go but my ex in SC was on the chunky side and I loved him so it's more about the person and not the size. He's the one who told me men don't care about cellulite.

I saw a woman this past weekend I would love to get with. She has a great body. Athletic. Fucking hot!

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I see this topic is still active so I thought I'd throw this in ...

I was on a bodybuilding forum this past weekend. A young lady had posted asking if guys really cared if women had cellulite.

The OVERWHELMING answer (from the guys on the forum there) was that they felt cellulite was ugly and disgusting and while they POSSIBLY would/could be friends with her, she would never leave "The Friend Zone".

Now, in fairness, not all of the guys said that. Some said that while they would definitely NOTICE any bit of cellulite they would have, they could look beyond it to see the person.

What the guys themselves said is that the "fitter" they are the less they tolerate "non-fitness" in a woman.

I thought this was interesting. And quite true.

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BLT: Vanessa Williams, Hallie Berry, Jacqueline Smith, Raquel Welch, Fiona Wade, to name a view as smart woman who rock.

Now for this site:NJNY, LRHott, Female half of bigduke & Tom & Diane, SBL to say a few.

Unicorn type one thinks of thin-attractive, but in my eyes there is much more to it being the biggest sexual organ is the brain I think good guys look at the big picture and if the lady is not a size two, in guys eyes can still be a unicord if a size 14-16 if they have their act together, know who they are and that they know what they want.

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@VA: Although I never thought of it in that context, you are absolutely right. I still want to know what the "unicorn" type is.

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Do you know who has a harder time getting laid than overweight women?

Overweight men.

Women say they don't care, but the evidence is blindingly contrary to this. Men are in general much more accepting of overweight women than the other way around.

How many chubby or bbw female porn stars/models are there? Lots.

How many chubby or fat male porn stars/models are there? Besides Ron Jeremy, who has basically been grandfathered in.

There is a huge push to include more, shall we say, hefty women in modeling. Ok. But every male model is still expected to be cut like a Calvin Klein model.

What do men think about that? They don't care.

The truth is that most people consider fit/thin-ish to be more attractive, and that is simply biology. Should people who are not feel badly about themselves? That's up to them. But if I gain 80 pounds and then wonder why I can't get young hotties to fuck me anymore, wouldn't you say "well DUH!!"?

Of course you would.

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