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Thanks KindDragon, that's on my to-do list, but since nothing much has changed (ie. weight, appearance, etc) it hasn't happend - yet..

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"Im just surprised at the number of bi men vs. the number of bi men who actually list as bi. "

I am sure you get a lot of mail from Bi men or those who'd like to try interacting with a male but you're figures are based on who contacts you. I would think the number of emails you get from straight men would be significantly less. Many are uncomfortable even knowing their is a Bi guy in the room, others just prefer straight men and others still have deep seeded fears or anger towards Bi men, some couldn't care less if you're straight or Bi even though they themselves are 100% straight if they find you both suited to their desires. Clearly it would seem the majority of your emails would be from couples with a Bi male or those couples/men interested in exploring their Bi curiosity. Therefore you're statement has no real basis for comparison. It would be no different if I made the statement "It is my opinion the majority of swingers are over 40" and basing on the fact that most who contact us are over 40.

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Personally I think no more than 20 percent of men are Bi or Bi-curious, This is my own number and not looking at any data, and is my best guess and think this number may even be high.

Sometimes I think it seems like more because we get contacted by a lot of couples where the man is listed as straight in his profile for various reasons, I'd say about 80 percent of couples that contact us directly the male half is listed as straight.

But in no way do I think that Bi men are the majority.

you have to remember that this is a swing site, so yes the proportion of bi male and female percentages are going to be much higher than in the real world.

saying that, I don't even think that Bi women are the majority either, maybe on this site yes, but not in the real world, although I pretty much think that there are a lot more bi women than men.

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Ill rephrase

"I seriously question whether straight men are truly the majority"

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"I seriously question whether straight people exist"

Don't question. I can assure you they do.

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John

I'm sure you're right.

Im just surprised at the number of bi men vs. the number of bi men who actually list as bi.

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I agree, we have come across couple that have contacted us and the male half wanted to try it and was curious, a few have said that it wasn't for them afterwards.

You're right, it's not for everyone, to us it's just another sexual preference, you either like it or you don't just like other preferences, for the same reason we don't hold it against women if they only want to be with men.

"I seriously question whether straight people exist."

That is a bold statement to make, and feel it is no where near the truth, There are plenty of men and women who are not bi and would never consider having sex with the same sex.

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if Angel was to put me on the spot for ANYTHING out of our normal boundries Id always say no..

as for Man on Man... nope not happening..not my cup of tea...ever.

I have nothing against those who do it, but NO way here..

It called a preference...i prefer only females.. never tried it... never will...

And if you ask your partner ANYTHING that hasnt been discussed before it should always be no... just my thoughts...

angel and i have a set list of "no way" and i wouldnt ask her to do anything on her list either... but of course we have a good communication level that seems unusual....

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Nothing wrong with asking.

He could have said no. I am yet to come across a man or man half of a couple that wasnt into it.

I seriously question whether straight people exist.

You may have finally given the green light to something he has been wanting to do or has been doing without your knowledge already. Now he is free to do so.

If you liked it. Tell him you liked it and found it a turn on. If he is the 1/10 of 1% of straight males....Then he will tell you he didnt like it

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Thanks AkronFunTimes, I try to let people know as much about me as I safely can. Hopefully that avoids unwanted surprises and false expectations.

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