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Watching your loved one in the height of erotic pleasure is quite exciting. To be a spectator as she lets herself go is extremely sensual to me. Watching the expression on both thier faces as they explore each other for the first time is incredible to say the least!

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Trust, mutual respect, no-issue, no-drama, joy of pleasure, eroticism, kink, fun, sharing, encouragement, agreement, attitude, confidence, stability, love= a successful swinging experience with your mate.

Jealousy, mistrust, lying, deceit, fear, instability, narrow-mindedness, control= unsuccessful swinging and problems, issues, drama and splits.

It all depends on the couple. If you know you're jealous, or you're partner is jealous, if you have problems already, if you fear divorce and are going along with swinging to "avoid" your mate cheating, if you're afraid your mate will "leave you" for someone he/she is having sex with, well then, no you should not be here.

If you have good communication with each other, and are on the same page ALWAYS as each other, when there is no pressure to do anything, only encouragement, then yeah. Anything can happen and it's exciting and enjoyable. If your mate is not "your best lay," then you're going to have problems. If you cannot bear the thought of someone else touching (or more) your partner, then you're going to eventually have problems. Successful swinging encompasses a lot of positive qualities, emotions, attitudes and behaviors. Just read all the posts asking for advice from experienced swingers and you'll get an idea of the problems that can arise if you have any "issues" that are left unspoken to each other, or are unresolved.

Good luck to all, and it really should be a pleasure and not a concern or worry, to be able to encourage your mate to have fun and to view that as something good, not something to be feared or condemned.

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Your're right Clit... It actually means that you love her enough to be so open and giving. And, what the hell; it turns you on at the same time. It sounds like a win-win situation to me.

How can you beat them apples?

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because you want your wife sexually sadisfided does'nt mean you don't love her.

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It is so much fun having my husband watch me.

~ Jen

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Hey Kinky: Please don't misquote me. I did not say FMF should not be here.

This topic gets a high amount of viewing by the membership. That is a fact. There is another thread under 3-way covering this same subject. It also has over 100K hits.

So, I invite all who may to blast this idea. Go for it. The debate, discussion and all is fun and provokes deep thought (about deep things!).

Ya'll go on with your bad selves!!! Mr. JackMichelle

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Surprised were on SLS? FMF should not be on here. And yes there will be watching....watching the women enjoying each other and then joining in. I can assure you there are a lot of members on here with the same views (i know this because we play with some of them)......Different views are fine.......I just wanted to get the other side of the coin into this thread.

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Dear Kinky:

To each his own. I am surprised you are on SLS. I don't mean that as a put-down. But any kind of swing activity requires some ability to be turned-on seeing your partner with another.

Tame activities are fine and fun. We like to watch and be watched. But in your profile you list that you want an FMF. Somebody is going to be watching somebody at some point. Aren't they?

That said, it is interesting to hear your views and those of anybody else who holds a similar perspective. But I can assure you, most of the men on SLS 'get off' on the idea and fact of watching their wife with another man.

Disclaimer... Your experiences may be different from ours. That's cool, too.

All The Best, JackMichelle

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I guess we fall into that minority category. We don't see how if you love each other, you could be ok, let alone be turned on by watching your woman being "balled" by another man. Seems like you can't like each other too much and don't want to spend the cash on a lawyer.

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This is arguably the most popular subject on SLS. This thread has over 120,000 hits.

Why is it so hot? It is an extreme turn-on because it is taboo, it is at the edge of jealousy, and of course, it is erotic to see your babe get balled. It charges up your adrenalin and your sex hormone all at the same time. There is actually a primal predisposition in us men to accept this... so long as jealousy and insecurity do not overwhelm it, and so long as we feel it is under our control. (It used to be a way to bring new genes into the tribal pool!)

I suggest that those members of SLS who do not find this a turn-on are by far in the minority.

Mr. JackMichelle

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