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TOPIC: Taking Fantasy to Reality, Serious advice welcome
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since getting into this lifestyle my hubby n i have been opening alot of doors , communication is the best , honesty too, we discuss everything , from what we want to what we dont want , now were looking to act on our fantasies , hey u only life once have fun but be safe an no pressure
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We had the same basic scenario. It was four years before she actually did anything about it.
Now, we're having a ball. Take it easy, go at *her* speed. |
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I am right there with you. I get a yes during sex, but only a "maybe" afterwords. I know she would love to fuck another man in front of me as she has mentioned someone that specifically made her pussy wet, but I suspect there are other issues holding her back (being a mother and a teacher).
Hang in there. |
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I personally think you've taken the right steps. You've opened the door, now you just gotta wait for her to walk through. If she does great- if she doesn't then there isn't much you can do.
The best advice has been given- be patient and if she comes around, welcome! |
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Applying any pressure will only cause her to resist. If and when she is ready, she will let you know.
I used to fantasize about my wife being with another man, or us swinging with another couple, when we were in bed making love. She never responded either, but one day she surprised me and said "either do something about it or shut up!" So I set up a meeting with a couple from a swingers' site, and that's how we got started. Luckily, my wife really liked the guy right from the start. I suspect it might not have been so easy if she thought the first guy we met was a creep. |
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